Received wrote:
That is so great!.. It seemed like when you didn't focus on your desire too much it worked!.. I am correct?
That may be the case, but my frequency was in the right place most of the time. As Abraham says: Your frequency on a subject is where you last left it. So, when you left it in a good place, the universe is working on your behalf even when you don't focus on your subject.
Anyway, I went from a guy who barely texted and disappeared for days, a guy who told me that he needs some time for himself to a guy who texts me every day, who send me a good morning message, calls me honey and tells me that he is looking forward to speak to me the next day. One important thing here is that I didn't freak out, because of his behaviour. When he told me that he needs time for himself, I was okay with that and tried to end the conversation, but he wouldn't stop texting and we are texting nearly every day since then. 
"Self-abandonment. That is the secret. We have to abandon ourselves to the state, in our love for the state, and in so doing live the life of the state and no more our present state. And to make the state alive, one must become it."
Neville Goddard ~ The Law and the Promise