Veronica's Law of Attraction Forum / When you are focused on the past !!!!!!!!😆

**Posted by Havefaith91** 11/01/2016 12:50 pm

When you are focused on the past and cannot seem to get through the hurtful moments stop! Take a deep breath! Get out pen and paper and write ten things you are grateful for that they do for you. They make you mad? Flip it! Try to be understanding. Try to find the good in all of it. Your love snaps? Oh they probably had a bad day at work. Sympathize. I'm not saying take any abuse but just find the good until you are making more of the good appear. It takes practice but you can do it!!!

**Posted by Justine** 11/01/2016 1:13 pm

I agree so much!! It takes time to feel gratitude for everything but so worth it!

I can affirm now that I cannot think of a single negative thing in my life so grateful and proud of myself for that <3

**Posted by Havefaith91** 11/01/2016 1:50 pm

Good!!! You are on the right path!!!😆😆

**Posted by happygirl97** 11/01/2016 2:13 pm

Thanks for that post

**Posted by Hopeandfaith** 11/04/2016 10:32 pm

In my case...what I have come to know is my.guy is still.stuck in the negative situation,blames himself,find himself.undeserving and.unworthy...where as I have come a long way ,become quite positive,m ay b coz I have all this source is this board host,veronicas challenge,have been practising magic too..
I so wish I could make him understand loa and send him some positivity.m sure we r going to be back together,just the matter of his alignment I feel...plus we r cities away so he even thinks as distance as the obstacle and doesn't want to think about us for 1/2 yrs
But heck yeah I know we r going to end up together...what I just need now is to have some patience with him n be his support..n m.going to do my best in tht 😃

**Posted by sunny** 11/05/2016 1:56 am

Hopeandfaith wrote:
In my case...what I have come to know is my.guy is still.stuck in the negative situation,blames himself,find himself.undeserving and.unworthy...where as I have come a long way ,become quite positive,m ay b coz I have all this source is this board host,veronicas challenge,have been practising magic too..
I so wish I could make him understand loa and send him some positivity.m sure we r going to be back together,just the matter of his alignment I feel...plus we r cities away so he even thinks as distance as the obstacle and doesn't want to think about us for 1/2 yrs
But heck yeah I know we r going to end up together...what I just need now is to have some patience with him n be his support..n m.going to do my best in tht 😃

In actuality, what you decide to create in your reality is not dependent on him or anyone else. Any behavior you see from him is really a reflection of what's going on inside of you. You are the one creating him being stuck in the past and the waiting to be with him. It is only important that you be completely aligned with what you want because all of your reality (including other people) MUST reflect you.

**Posted by Hopeandfaith** 11/05/2016 3:35 am

sunny wrote:
Hopeandfaith wrote:
In my case...what I have come to know is my.guy is still.stuck in the negative situation,blames himself,find himself.undeserving and.unworthy...where as I have come a long way ,become quite positive,m ay b coz I have all this source is this board host,veronicas challenge,have been practising magic too..
I so wish I could make him understand loa and send him some positivity.m sure we r going to be back together,just the matter of his alignment I feel...plus we r cities away so he even thinks as distance as the obstacle and doesn't want to think about us for 1/2 yrs
But heck yeah I know we r going to end up together...what I just need now is to have some patience with him n be his support..n m.going to do my best in tht 😃
In actuality, what you decide to create in your reality is not dependent on him or anyone else. Any behavior you see from him is really a reflection of what's going on inside of you. You are the one creating him being stuck in the past and the waiting to be with him. It is only important that you be completely aligned with what you want because all of your reality (including other people) MUST reflect you.

Thanks sunny..yes since I had this talk with him I started feeling a feeling of letting go of any negativity,coz I know the end result is we being together😃nothing more matters to me now...I.know we r going to end up together