I'm on my journey for a while now and I gathered some experience what is working for me and what isn't. I watched people on their journeys and saw which people had success and which hadn't. I always wondered why so few people had success in attracting back an ex. I mean, this forum has 664 members right now and I would say not even 10 percent posted their success story here. Not such a convincing success rate. My old me would say that there is a natural possibility to get back together with someone and that this less than 10 percent are the lucky ones. I'm sure one or the other of you know this thoughts and you try to put them aside everytime they show up, but they come up over and over again.

So, why is it that nearly no one has success with it? Simple, because nearly no one (and I mean it!) really follows the rules of LoA. Well, you cannot really NOT follow the rules of LoA, because you can't stop thinking, but what I mean by that is that you don't do what is necessary to get what you want. Let me tell you, it's not that LoA isn't real. It's not that it isn't working for you. It's not that the Universe set the timer for you and your love being back together to the year 2045. It's not that it just isn't meant to be (there isn't anything like that). It's not that your love don't want to be with you. It's you and you alone who is creating that experience. It doesn't matter what they say, where they are, if you have contact or not, if you see a way to contact them or not, if they are with someone else, if they are married. The only thing that makes it matter is your attention to it. I say that again: It doesn't matter how the situation looks like. The only thing that matters is if you give it your attention or not. And here comes the very reason why you all aren't happily together with the one you love. Nearly every post here is focused on the unwanted reality. That's understandable, because you were focused all your life on your "reality". You got quite good in observing it, sorting it into postive and negative, talking with friends about it and making plans to take action to change it. There is so much to learn and do, when you are new to LoA, observing thoughts, observing feelings and understanding all of this, but you have to understand that while you are talking about what you don't want, the wanted end of this thing can't come to you.

You are an infinitely powerful creator and when they say that you can create ANYTHING you want they really mean it. There is no BUT. Anything includes every thing. Not only the car, the old or new boyfriend, the money. Would you like to eat more and lose weight? Would you like to fly to the moon or other planets? Do you want to fly without the help of any devices? It's all possible. Getting back your love is sooo small compared to all that is possible. You don't have to stretch your beliefs too far. But you have to drop your old stories that aren't serving you. Every thought you think has creative power. What do you create now and now and now? It's not that you visualise what you want for 10 minutes and the rest of the day you aren't creating. You are always creating, always! When you think "I have to press that button to turn the TV on" that's a story you are telling yourself. You may say that it's the truth, but it's only the truth, because you believe in it. You may say that it's the truth that your love isn't talking to you and it's the same here. When you stop believing in your old story, your old story can't longer exist. The world isn't independent of you. The world IS you. You are not in the world. The world is in you. There is no reality. It's all just in your head. Your love is in your head. You gave them free will by believing that they have and now you are discussing, if it's okay to attract someone back, because they have free will. Kinda funny, don't you think? You can believe whatever you want of course and every belief is a valid belief. Your reality will always reflect back what you believe, simply because it's the reflection of your consciousness. Reality IS your beliefs and nothing more.

When you can internalize this and stop creating what you don't want by following your old thought paths, you got it. You won't only get your love back, but everything else you want and so much more. You will grow with light speed and your desires will, as well. You will know that you can have it all. You will know that there are no boundaries and you will finally live life the way you intended to do, when you came here. It's all in your hands. Take your power back and start to create what you want.