Milk&Honey wrote:
I believe that attachment is not a problem. The problem is what exists behind attachment: no faith. We don't believe that's why we are attached. We try to control.
Attachment is DANGEROUS ground. Very dangerous. In almost every success story about getting a specific person or ex back, a common theme is the person "moved on". Attachment causes one to worry, doubt, be jealous, and above all: FEAR.
Attachment leads to fear, fear leads to anger, anger leads to hate, hate leads to the dark side. An unattached person will manifest their desires much quicker than one who is attached. Every. Single. Time.
Attachment is a huge problem here. Just look at all the posts on this website and powerlawofattraction.com. People are OBSESSED with their ex! To them its "I want X or no one else. Id rather die than live without X". This obsession is not good and is a very low vibe. Being attached is not love. Unconditional love involves no attachment whatsoever.
Some relationships are nothing but attachments. They are born out of neediness. They end because one or both persons no longer wants to be attached to the other or they find someone else to attach to. This is NOT love.
Yoda is right. You want to manifest someone? Release the attachment and "mourn them do not, miss them do not, rejoice for them". Love them through the eyes of God/Source/Highest self. That is true love.