I watched a video on youtube ages ago by a guy who said he actually got his ex back from a terrible situation through loa. He claims it was the no contact thing that was the trick. He went completely awol, had no facebook so she couldn't even see through a friend's, no social media, went on a trip to Asia and did a meditation course. Basically made himself a total mystery to her so that she was so intrigued and also improved his mental state at the same time. He doesn't reccommend loa to get an ex back though, because he said that in his case the relationship when he got it back was terrible and he ended up leaving her. However, the thing to see is that mystery does really work especially if you're in that good vibration with your person. You don't have to go no contact, light contact is fine, answering his texts but not texting him and being busy a lot so you can't meet up with him, he will start to chase and start to be more serious I would say. But it's also for your own sanity, to create that distance, like a cat does. A cat moves away from a person when it wants to be petted, it has enough confidence in itself to know that the person will come towards it, then when the person pets it, it purrs with appreciation and that makes the person happy. Be a cat 