Veronica's Law of Attraction Forum / NO CONTACT!! Ok?!?!

**Posted by Cherished** 2/06/2016 6:06 am

I love you all very much, and I want with all of my heart for you each to succeed in manifesting your wildest dreams. 💜

**Posted by barbidoll** 2/06/2016 7:33 am

Another wonderful post

**Posted by big_blue** 2/06/2016 9:02 am

I am actually thankful that my guy doesn't have social media, and that I never reached out to him after he ended things. Sure, I had a HUGE pity party and was the most miserable person for a while, but now that I look back on it I am very happy about NC.

Now if I knew about LOA 2 yrs ago when things ended, I'd be back with him a lot sooner. I working on letting go of some limiting beliefs, so I believe that's what standing in between me and my guy.

So as Cherished beautifully put.. GO NO CONTACT! I fully support everything she said and am proof that going NC is for the better.

**Posted by reikiri** 2/06/2016 10:48 am

Cherished wrote:
reikiri wrote:
What if we haven't been talking for a few weeks, and his birthday is coming up in 11 days?

Depends.. If you can HONESTLY, ABSOLUTELY 100% send a message with ZERO need or want for a response, then send. But you have to understand it's not what you say, it's the vibration behind it. You could say "yeah, totally fine, I won't be upset if he doesn't reply.." But you are nervous in case he doesn't. That won't play out well- LOA won't have you both jiving together if you're worried.

IF however, you are happily living your bliss, things are going great and you simply feel inspired to UNCONDITIONALLY send him some happy birthday vibes, then that's an inspired action that is unconditional.. regardless of the circumstances.

Thanks Cherished! 😀

**Posted by Iamthatiam** 2/06/2016 12:27 pm

Wonderful post cherished

**Posted by emmanuela** 2/06/2016 3:20 pm

thank you!!!!! It was just what i needed!!!! <3

**Posted by LoveIsGod** 2/06/2016 3:41 pm

Hello cherished.. I n my family had family relation with my man's family!
I am not in contact with him since when I dont remember also..and it doesn't bother me also, it has become a habit just as once calling n texting him was a habit! Anyway, coming to the point, his sister has her birthday! I wished her last year also!,,infct I wish her every year!

What do you say ? Should I wish her?

I am getting two voices from within, one is saying "go ahead .. It's just a bday wish, a good wish for someone which you should do keeping aside everything else!"
Another voice is saying "no don't do, you will be giving him importance by wishing on his sister's bday"!

What should I do,?

**Posted by Cherished** 2/06/2016 4:01 pm

I was in the same position and I gave it up. I felt sad and it took my energy from me. If you are in 2 minds, don't 😘

**Posted by Hopeful one** 2/06/2016 9:34 pm

Girl you need to write a book!!! I would buy it!

**Posted by Love5278** 2/06/2016 10:29 pm

Hopeful one wrote:
Girl you need to write a book!!! I would buy it!

I second that !