Veronica's Law of Attraction Forum / Does this sound correct?

**Posted by Aquilina** 11/26/2018 3:53 pm

About a month ago, I met someone that wants to manifest me, and I'm not interested in him that way. Another guy has appeared that wants to manifest me, who I also have no interest in in that way. I find it annoying, the unwanted attention makes me feel claustrophobic, and like I don't want to talk to these people as much.

It just hit me today...could these people have shown up, because maybe that's how I feel about my own process relating to my person? Do I think he sees me as needy and annoying and not interesting? Well, I didn't think I thought this, or at least I thought I had gone past that stage, but maybe it needs some exploration. I made some good progress about how I feel about myself yesterday, and after that, this came to light. Any thoughts on this? Why else would this happen if not to show me what I, myself, am doing?

Last edited by Aquilina (11/26/2018 3:53 pm)

**Posted by excalibar** 11/26/2018 4:01 pm

Aquilina wrote:
About a month ago, I met someone that wants to manifest me, and I'm not interested in him that way. Another guy has appeared that wants to manifest me, who I also have no interest in in that way. I find it annoying, the unwanted attention makes me feel claustrophobic, and like I don't want to talk to these people as much.

It just hit me today...could these people have shown up, because maybe that's how I feel about my own process relating to my person? Do I think he sees me as needy and annoying and not interesting? Well, I didn't think I thought this, or at least I thought I had gone past that stage, but maybe it needs some exploration. I made some good progress about how I feel about myself yesterday, and after that, this came to light. Any thoughts on this? Why else would this happen if not to show me what I, myself, am doing?

I kid in my class likes me and I also find it extremely uncomfortable. I don’t let that get in the way of me manifesting my person. Self love isn’t mandatory to manifest your person although I do think it’s a good thing to have.

**Posted by Aquilina** 11/26/2018 4:10 pm

Actually some needy guys have also appeared that don't know about this stuff, but these two people, well it seems as clear as daylight xD I feel like for me, part of all of this is changing my self-image because it's been my biggest challenge which had always prevented me from having relationships. So I think sorting both out would be the ultimate "forgivness of sin" as Neville would put it xD

**Posted by Aquilina** 11/26/2018 4:11 pm

Anyway I wanted to share it because I had been wondering why is this happening, and maybe other people have similar experiences! Hopefully it's a useful insight to someone.

**Posted by Aquilina** 11/26/2018 4:22 pm

I feel like the feeling of being worth having something is very important. To me, it seems like thinking we're not worth something is like another way of saying, "I can't have that thing". I used to have a friend that struggled a lot with self-love. She was still able to get into relationships. She went through a few relationships in the time I knew her, and they didn't last but she still must have believed that she was able to have a relationship, and that men wanted her in that way...believing she could have a good quality relationship that lasts is something else.

But anyway, there are so many people in relationships that don't have much love for themselves so yeah. I think the part of it that has the bigger effect on whether we manifest, is feeling like we're worth it. That's linked to self-love but not exactly the same. And no doubt, people still manifest things they don't believe they are worth. But it seems to me that it's just like saying, if we're worth a thing, we can have it and if not, no. To me, that seems like the most logical way to interpret it.

**Posted by Aquilina** 11/26/2018 4:42 pm

I also had a dream last night that was related to all of this! All the information is coming forward :D

**Posted by Stacey** 11/27/2018 1:52 pm

When you vibrate at a high level, people are drawn to you. When it's people that you have no attatchment to it's easier to keep their attention. It's all energy.

**Posted by Aquilina** 11/28/2018 8:01 am

I used to think that until I discovered Neville and now I don't know, so I am covering all bases xD

**Posted by Aquilina** 11/29/2018 12:23 pm

In fact, these other people don't show up when I'm feeling good. I hadn't been feeling high until the last couple of days since I've got a bit more on track. And I remember a few months ago when I was feeling really bad, there was another one similar that really made me cringe.