Actually some needy guys have also appeared that don't know about this stuff, but these two people, well it seems as clear as daylight xD I feel like for me, part of all of this is changing my self-image because it's been my biggest challenge which had always prevented me from having relationships. So I think sorting both out would be the ultimate "forgivness of sin" as Neville would put it xD

I feel like the feeling of being worth having something is very important. To me, it seems like thinking we're not worth something is like another way of saying, "I can't have that thing". I used to have a friend that struggled a lot with self-love. She was still able to get into relationships. She went through a few relationships in the time I knew her, and they didn't last but she still must have believed that she was able to have a relationship, and that men wanted her in that way...believing she could have a good quality relationship that lasts is something else.

But anyway, there are so many people in relationships that don't have much love for themselves so yeah. I think the part of it that has the bigger effect on whether we manifest, is feeling like we're worth it. That's linked to self-love but not exactly the same. And no doubt, people still manifest things they don't believe they are worth. But it seems to me that it's just like saying, if we're worth a thing, we can have it and if not, no. To me, that seems like the most logical way to interpret it.

When you vibrate at a high level, people are drawn to you. When it's people that you have no attatchment to it's easier to keep their attention. It's all energy.

In fact, these other people don't show up when I'm feeling good. I hadn't been feeling high until the last couple of days since I've got a bit more on track. And I remember a few months ago when I was feeling really bad, there was another one similar that really made me cringe.