I would actually try to find a therapist who you feel has the right fit for you, as not every therapist will judge you, and the best ones don't. So, if you feel like you don't click with someone - I would try another therapist as there are so many! I do agree that you should never "wait around" for someone, but should instead live your life even if you are trying to manifest a specific person. But, I would never call you crazy for wanting to be with this person - because who knows what may come in the future. Never be afraid to speak your feelings, or afraid that a therapist will judge you. Always try to find someone who you can talk to, and that helps inspire you towards a better life and good decisions that make sense for your happiness.
Milk&Honey wrote:
Thank you Veronica! You are absolutely right. I have a question.
If you go to a therapist and talk about your specific person who is with someone else for 6 years, he/she will definitely tell you to move on and that you must be crazy to wait for him (it has happened to me) . How can we handle this?