Veronica's Law of Attraction Forum / He's on

**Posted by Selfloveiskey** 9/28/2017 11:20 am

I cancelled meeting up with him what's the point the universe has made it very clear I'm not going to get what I want.

**Posted by Cynthia** 9/28/2017 11:21 am

Selfloveiskey wrote:
I've always thought he was coming back I thought this time all the stuff the universe sent it was working

Maybe he still will, but maybe you deserve better. Where there's life there's hope is an old saying because it's true. Things change all the time. Nothing stays static. Things can change in a heartbeat. I'd been totally in love with my POI for 5 years and he'd started ignoring me for no good reason, nothing I'd done. One day I suddenly felt nothing for him. I couldn't even make myself feel anything for him. The next month he contacted me.

**Posted by Selfloveiskey** 9/28/2017 11:24 am

Sorry guys I don't want to love anyone else...really I want a better not loving relationship with him but it looks like the universe is showing me that's not happening . So I cancelled my meet up with him . I'm gonna try to forget today and then I guess I ll be looking for someone to settle with cause I do want a relationship not because I need it to show me I'm loved I'm still doing that it's just I like relationships so eventually I ll have to settle with someone I guess.

**Posted by Selfloveiskey** 9/28/2017 11:24 am

Thanks for the support . I appreciate y'all commenting and stuff really I'm not gonna do the 25 day challenge today .

**Posted by Cynthia** 9/28/2017 11:29 am

Selfloveiskey wrote:
Sorry guys I don't want to love anyone else...really I want a better not loving relationship with him but it looks like the universe is showing me that's not happening . So I cancelled my meet up with him . I'm gonna try to forget today and then I guess I ll be looking for someone to settle with cause I do want a relationship not because I need it to show me I'm loved I'm still doing that it's just I like relationships so eventually I ll have to settle with someone I guess.

I hope if you find somebody else that you'll be a lot happier with him but that you won't 'settle' just to have somebody. I didn't even realise I was settling when I married my ex-husband, but I was, for a lot less than I wanted and deserved in a marriage, and I was very unhappy.

**Posted by Selfloveiskey** 9/28/2017 11:31 am

Cynthia wrote:
Selfloveiskey wrote:
Sorry guys I don't want to love anyone else...really I want a better not loving relationship with him but it looks like the universe is showing me that's not happening . So I cancelled my meet up with him . I'm gonna try to forget today and then I guess I ll be looking for someone to settle with cause I do want a relationship not because I need it to show me I'm loved I'm still doing that it's just I like relationships so eventually I ll have to settle with someone I guess.

I hope if you find somebody else that you'll be a lot happier with him but that you won't 'settle' just to have somebody. I didn't even realise I was settling when I married my ex-husband, but I was, for a lot less than I wanted and deserved in a marriage, and I was very unhappy.

I deserve to be in a loving relationship with the one I love..I've always felt he is my person. Clearly the universe has a sense of humor but has made it clear so I am going to have to settle if I want kids and things

**Posted by Selfloveiskey** 9/28/2017 11:46 am

I'm just upset ...I had been doing so good thought these were signs..but it's like he seems unhappy with her and yet he's still there...I cancelled my meet up and am just gonna do nothing right now ..the universe seems to not deliver ..I'm still trying to trust but i can't see how this will lead me to my desire. Thanks for the responses

**Posted by Kavik** 9/28/2017 12:05 pm

Sorry about that, but try to focus on yourself, don't put your attention on what is he doing, that doesn't matter, just focus on what you want.

**Posted by Selfloveiskey** 9/28/2017 12:08 pm

Kavik wrote:
Sorry about that, but try to focus on yourself, don't put your attention on what is he doing, that doesn't matter, just focus on what you want.

The universe has a binder of me repeating the same thing I want over and over again lol. I am going to focus on me because it feels good but I just I m having a hard time believing this will work out. I seem to get bread crumbs of hope followed by this stuff for no reason and the thing is even today when I said "see your happy" he said "relaxed and happy are different things but yeah . You?" I mean basically in a cryptic way saying he isn't happy. So I'm not saying anything now I'm gonna send him a message tonight to cancel next week cause I don't want to send too many messages at once . I ll see him at the next group event which happens to be a party and my birthday the following week that he wants to go to.

**Posted by Selfloveiskey** 9/28/2017 12:09 pm

As my status saids life is 10% what happens and 90% how you react so I feel even though I'm really upset and disappointed I'm handling it well . My inner guidance saids to just not think of anything really just be .