today I listened to very nice interview with Ariel Ford, she wrote the book Soulmate secret and now her new book is being released

She was talking about it and then she said nice story about her friend who when she was cleaning mess after her husband having breakfast every morning.
One day she was really fed up and asked herself what would have to happen for the mess not being here each morning?
And suddenly she realized: "That would mean my husband is not with me anymore!"

And since that day she loved his flaw - mess in the kitchen as it was a reminder that her loving husband is with her

and to me it was wow, this is amazing

why dont we think of something which we hated when we were with our love and now we nearly miss it?

you can add it to your visualization and let it create a smile on your face, because if you imagine that mess or whatever it is, it will fill your heart with love as it is the sign your guy is with you again :-)

I was thinking lately that my flat doesnt reflect him being back that much so I bought his favourite shower gel and sometimes I even wash with that, not out of desperation just when I cant reach my one or just for fun :-)