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Hi,
I have started to like a guy who friendZoned me months ago again as I saw him Monday night for hugs after I witnessed the aftermath of a terrible tragic accident. I think I rang him because he lived nearby in the city.
Anyway he's put me under his spell again, and I have no idea what thoughts to think to get more experiences with him again.
He stood outside his building for like an hour hugging me and talking to me even though he had to go to sleep until we ended upstairs.
I haven't messaged him and he hasn't messaged me. I realised why we haven't spent time together because he's still attracted to me.
Help please, I love his facial expressions and him sticking his tongue out at me.
Last edited by Bellecat (12/16/2015 5:04 pm)
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I'm not exactly sure what your question is?
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Cherished wrote:
I'm not exactly sure what your question is?
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Yes I also read the part that you highlighted.. But you say that you actually saw him and you spent time together and that he's attracted to you! So you need only focus on those great aspects of your story and know that more will come if you keep your vibration high π
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Cherished wrote:
Yes I also read the part that you highlighted.. But you say that you actually saw him and you spent time together and that he's attracted to you! So you need only focus on those great aspects of your story and know that more will come if you keep your vibration high π
Thanks he made me feel so much better, it was horrible hearing all the sirens and then seeing it all
I'm glad I have something happy to focus on, now to get rid of my doubt and fear.
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There's no reason to have fear or doubt. You are in control. You are powerful. You've got this!
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I'm sorry I'm totally lost here. Is he your ex or an old flame or guy from the gym or guy from the dating sites?? . I'm not being smart but in not clear in what your saying or what your desire actually is??.
As Cherished said just be positive but also focused!
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Am I making him keep a wall up between us unconciously?
Sleeping with me is a bad idea for some reason
I feel like giving up but then I see him shaking his head at me, tutting and saying what am I going to do with you.
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Sam wrote:
The only thing keeping you apart is you, so you have to work on focusing on what you want only, and ignoring anything he says or does. You can turn it around to be exactly what you want but you have to try your best to ignore what you see in front of you and focus on how you want it to be instead.
Thank you
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Sam wrote:
Bellecat wrote:
Sam wrote:
The only thing keeping you apart is you, so you have to work on focusing on what you want only, and ignoring anything he says or does. You can turn it around to be exactly what you want but you have to try your best to ignore what you see in front of you and focus on how you want it to be instead.
Thank you
You're welcome! Also really enjoy the positive things he does and says and let those emotions fill you up, because focusing on them will bring you more of it.
I kept thanking him for giving me hugs and he thanked me to so I helped him somehow.
I have no idea why he decided to let me in his apartment.