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Until a few days ago when I felt not so good, I started making movie boards imagining myself with my lover, or started reading compulsively about law of attraction and how it could help me. However last days i started to focus on giving me love , whenever I feel not so good. I think this is good to get detached and dependent from my lover, to feel good. i had almost a full time job, searching about LOA and relationship, or about techiniques, and other stuffs. From now on, i´m focusing on me, and giving me love, and when i feel good with me, i could go "visit" her with R.S or lanie´s R.S. I want to be dependent only from myself.
Probably this is too obvious ... but I think only know i´m getting it . . for real.
What you think ?
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Yes, this is a good thing to do. Doing RS and visualisations should come from a place where you feel good, and you're able to feel compassion and pure love – sometimes that only comes from treating yourself, being happy, and doing stuff you love. Visualisations SHOULD NOT come from a place of 'need' or 'lack' because that's all you will get in return.
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You should always treat yourself really well This is about loving yourself, so someone else can love you too
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You've got to love yourself first. If you don't you'll recreate the situations you don't want because you believe you deserve those lacks and bad things. I definitely believe you should only RS and visualize from love and wholeness.
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All of these techniques such as RS, visualizing, affirmations, etc are meant to be used in order to raise your vibration. The main thing is to feel good and love yourself. If you feel great then awesome things will start happening. Don't get fixated on using techniques if they cause you stress. I'm sure you will marry your person!
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Sam wrote:
Today was the first day I truly focused on myself and appreciated things around me and it raised my vibe so much that I was able to visualize my love with joy, when previously it hurt just to think about him. I think that says a lot.
Oh you have no idea how excited I am to read this!! 💜🌈
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Blessedck wrote:
I'm sure you will marry your person!
You Bet!!
And all of you are invited!
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And our first baby will be called VERONICAISLES.COM .. so i hope it´s a girl... hehehe
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I think you've got a good point there, bernardoo9. You do need to occupy yourself with things that feel good outside of your visualizing time.
I do find that it's a question of balance. I personally love reading loa books and discovering new things, and I love being on loa forums, especially this one. That is how you learn and grow and improve your technique. But I think the danger lies in constantly searching for the silver bullet that will make all the difference. I think if we find ourselves occupied with finding THE answer 24/7, then we need to step back and question what is really going on here. Quite often we will find that we are actually doing all this endless searching because we are still way too attached. And if we are too attached, then that will slow down or even halt the manifestation altogether.
Loa is quite a simple process. We basically just send out the intention of what we want, we let it go without attachment, and then we go on with our day, knowing that the universe is "processing our order" and that it is already ours. No need to worry about how long it takes to actually show up, because we know that everything is being taken care of, just as it would if we made an order for something online. So really we can get on with living our wonderful lives and do things that make us feel great, without the slightest bit of worry. :-)
Last edited by Salome (12/15/2015 10:31 am)