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Jui · 12/07/2015 7:38 am

Okay , So I am in this super man mode , enjoying life , reading books and working on myself . But then I have this one thing in my mind .. it's my aduz bday on 25th , I have decided to celebrate on his behalf with orphan kids , I don't even wish to inform him about this I gss that's how I wish to send my love for him secretly. But then should I wish him on his bday ( I am following no contact rule as that's what Veronica suggest and he always feels that I am always gonna be there for him )
Infact I am going clubbing on the same night with my friends which I know is gonna be a major shock for him .. Like I don't wish him and roam with other friends of mine .. Am I doing right ?? Should I wish him and send a indirect gift or should I just not respond and let it go ..
and just celebrate his bday with orphan kids

Milk&Honey · 12/07/2015 8:44 am

I think that you are feeling a little guilty about having a good time and not wishing him happy birthday.

"Infact I am going clubbing on the same night with my friends which I know is gonna be a major shock for him .. Like I don't wish him and roam with other friends of mine .. Am I doing right ??"

Remember, you always have to be above. You must be a priority for you. The rest will fall into place. Because the moment you become the center of your reality, you will know what to do and if you choose to wish him, you will do it because you really want to and not because you "have to", or to make something happen. It won't be from a place of fear. And if you manage to be the center of your world successfuly, he may come to you by himself.

Jui · 12/07/2015 9:40 am

I wish to wish him , every year I have done tones of stuff to make his days special , but this year i don't know why I feel like leaving him alone .. and not bothering on his way and giving him time to revert rather then taking his bday as a chance to talk to him ..

Milk&Honey · 12/07/2015 9:55 am

Maybe it is a good chance to give him space and to give yourself the opportunity to put YOU in the right place. Do things that make you feel good. Be in the center of your life and reality. I think it will be good for both of you.

barbidoll · 12/07/2015 10:12 am

Trust your feelings if you really feel like going clubbing ( I adore clubbing lol) then DO if you know you will just feel bad and long for him bringing out negative energy then NO you need to do fun things that make you feel better spending time with orphans is a lovely thing to do any good works will not just make you feel better but think of all the good energy cheering up sad children

dreamer7 · 12/07/2015 10:15 am

Wish him and get on with your day.
Dont overthink anything.
We wish everyone on their birthdays, even if we dont know the person that much.
So wish him and get going with your day.

And most importantly, see to it that no kind of reply from him (good or bad) should disturb your day or lower your vibrations.
Think about the larger picture. Your desires are gonna get fulfilled. So just hang in there. Stay happy

Jui · 12/07/2015 10:28 am

I gss you are right dreamer7
I shall wish him and just keep going with the day . I shall celebrate on his behalf with orphan kids and also go for clubbing and whatever he replies goood or bad I shall never let that thing break my mind peace , I shall maintain my good vibes !!
Thankyou friends for your reply .. it feels good after sharing my silliest issue over here .

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