1 - happygirl
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Do RS or just forget about him?
Hi guys,
its so good to be here with you. I have been apart from the guy I love for over 2 years now.
Lately I have started some really consistent RS and visualization and also Supermans game. It was great and I managed nearly the 30days and there was some progress with my guy.
But I was thinking today about the book I read by Mallica. Who says that the best to attract your lost love is to state what you want and then redirect your energy to yourself and other things and completely forget about him and when you do, then he will miraculously return out of the blue.
Today, I was thinking about it so much and it does make sense to me. As when I remember how we started few years back, he was very interested in me and I couldnt care less, I was not interested at all, and he was more and more interested like if my no interest was somehow keeping him hooked, it was the same the first year of our relationship. I had friends, male friends, my life and he was all over me, jealous, wanted me for himself only. then it all changed and I felt so much in love that i forgot about myself and then started to project my fears on him till he left not just me but my country. Now its been two years and I dont seem to be able to move on, he will call me or text me every now and again, usually when some other guy appears or when I get really busy but then thats it, no more interest.
It made me think if this is the right way, to just get back to the point where i didnt care at all and just was so happy in my own life that i even didnt notice if I am alone or not, if he is interested in me or not.
What do you think and what is your experience?
I will be happy to see your point of view. :-)
- Blessedck
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Hi happygirl,
The main goal is to get rid of all the resistance. And, when you stop thinking about your person then for many people all of the resistance is gone and they pop back in your life. Do whatever works for you. If you want this guy back then you have to make sure there is no resistance. If you truly believe he's yours then the universe will deliver him to you.
- happygirl
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thank you Blessedck. I just went swimming and when I was coming back I was thinking to myself: "you silly Billy, it doesnt really matter if you forget him or do RS. He will come back the minute you are relaxed and feel good no matter what you do." :-) and now I see your message. How cool is that? Thank you Blessedck. You are absolutely right. It doesnt really matter. When i feel good and let go of the resistance, then it will all happen easily and effortlessly. Sometimes we are so obsessed with the outcome that we blind ourselves. That is what I was doing for so long time.
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Thread Starter- bernardo09
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I'll just ask you the real meaning of letting go. It means not to think about the person and just be happy. It means thinking about her once in the morning and another at night, and walk the rest of the happy day or that means walking happy and think in her repeatedly throughout the day?
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bernardo09 wrote:
I'll just ask you the real meaning of letting go. It means not to think about the person and just be happy. It means thinking about her once in the morning and another at night, and walk the rest of the happy day or that means walking happy and think in her repeatedly throughout the day?
This article helped me understand what it means
- Blessedck
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I posted this article in an earlier thread. Perhaps it can help you Bernardo
- happygirl
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Blessedck this is actually amazing article. i have to read it properly as it is very long. I have read that book by Elizabeth but think I should read it again as I somehow dont even remember the part about the free will and what she has to say about that. Anyway thank you for that. There is still so much to learn and do. I have recently bought the book by Lanie and its really a great read. Very empowering. I only found it thanks to this forum. Otherwise would never buy a book with such title, its very misleading but great book.
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Thread Starter- barbidoll
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yes they are great articles that is where I get balled up I know what I have to do to manifest my love back but I am sooo obsessed and attached to the outcome I know its an addiction and obsession because I want my life back and have been obsessing about it for 4 years ( definately bad patterns here) but that is what is keeping him from contacting me and asking me back ah yes detachment is the hardest perhaps this will help Thank you !!
- Blessedck
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Blessedck this is actually amazing article. i have to read it properly as it is very long. I have read that book by Elizabeth but think I should read it again as I somehow dont even remember the part about the free will and what she has to say about that. Anyway thank you for that. There is still so much to learn and do. I have recently bought the book by Lanie and its really a great read. Very empowering. I only found it thanks to this forum. Otherwise would never buy a book with such title, its very misleading but great book.
No problem. I'm glad you liked it. Her book is great. Veronica has a great video on free will on YouTube. I recommend watching that. There is definitely a lot to learn. I think you're on the right path and will manifest all of your desires.
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yes they are great articles that is where I get balled up I know what I have to do to manifest my love back but I am sooo obsessed and attached to the outcome I know its an addiction and obsession because I want my life back and have been obsessing about it for 4 years ( definately bad patterns here) but that is what is keeping him from contacting me and asking me back ah yes detachment is the hardest perhaps this will help Thank you !!
Obsessing over the how and when is a very bad addiction that will only bring more negativity. It was very hard for me to let go of all that obsession but I'm so glad I did. I feel more calm and relaxed.
You said you have been obsessing for the past 4 years and obviously this didn't get you what you wanted. Therefore, you know what you need to do.
I'm sure he will contact you once you change your thoughts, feelings, and beliefs. And don't stalk him.
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