Sam wrote:

Blessedck wrote:

Sam, first of all I want to say be proud of the fact that you were able to feel connected to your guy and for manifesting some messages from friends. You simply can't ignore your achievements. On the other hand, I understand that reading those reviews made you feel bad. However, before jumping to any conclusions can you say with a 100% guarantee that the people who gave those reviews were indeed 100% positive and completely trusted the universe? If you can prove to me that you know EXACTLY every thought, feeling, and belief they had then lol I'll give you my first paycheck as a doctor.

You are right, I should be proud! Because I've never had that happen before and the fact that it did just shows how much my mind is expanding and accepting new things.

I can 100% guarantee that they WEREN'T 100% positive and completely trusted in the Universe. No wonder it didn't work for them. I always find it so interesting that half my mind acknowledges that inevitable fact, while the other half cowers in fear the same will happen to me - which it won't.

Blessedck wrote:

Sorry, I'm not trying to be mean but I just want you to recognize that we can't base our lives on what others say. I too have been discouraged in the past when I used to look up loa articles and they would say you can't attract someone. I would start crying and thought my life was over. Trust me I used a lot of kleenex lol. I don't want you to cry or be upset because it will only make matters worse.

Not mean at all! This is something I've realized about myself very recently and it's something I've started to work on. It all comes down to not loving myself enough. That's really what all of this comes down to actually.

Blessedck wrote:

I absolutely loved nsquared's explanation. It's not your fault that you are having some difficulty taking that leap of faith. I did too. After shedding millions of tears, hours of stalking, and feeling like crap I told myself that this is not the girl I used to be. People loved my bubbly and happy go lucky personality. I wanted to be that girl again. With Veronica's amazing help and this lovely forum, I am that girl again and I don't care about what the world says or what I see. I know my relationship with my guy exists and so does yours!

Starting today, take an oath and tell yourself that Sam is entitled to the relationship she wants and everything else her heart desires! I am expecting a wedding invite to your wedding. Where will it be?

You and nsquared definitely put a smile on my face and made me feel good tonight, so thank you for that. I get exactly what you're saying here. This up and down, happy and sad girl is not me. Not at all. But I notice the real me popping out more often, when a month ago she was nowhere to be found. If baby steps is what it takes then that's what I will do, because I'm sure as heck not going to give up.

Ironically I haven't given any thought to my wedding at all! But I do know that I want a nice big, tear drop shaped moonstone engagement ring. I know the exact one.

A friend suggested to me that I create a Pintrest and start planning my wedding there. I'm totally going to do that.

so happy we could put a smile on your face, that makes me so happy :')

your ring sounds beautiful - i can't wait to see pictures of it omg it sounds amazing!

i totally understand that feeling, but we're getting there and we're all in this boat together. the momentum and energy is shifting and we're all getting closer each day to our desires. it's only a matter of time