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Dan2015 · 12/04/2015 2:44 pm

I don't know what it is, but the last 3-4 days I've felt horribly. It's like everything that could go wrong is going wrong for me. I almost feel like just giving up. Like today. My love told me that she signed up for a dating app because her friend wanted her to, and she met a guy that she's really liking and they hung out the other day and played pool. It's weird, the last time a month ago when she told me she was talking to someone I knew it wouldn't work because it was a few weeks/month after we brokeup and I knew it was a rebound relationship and they never work. But this one, I'm not sure I'm so fearful and panicky. Like I doing its a rebound relationship, but then again it could be(if they get in one) cause she's trying to find the comfort of someone.

Plus. This girl I was getting close with, out of nowhere a few days ago she changed on me. Like she either ignores me or one words me And I have NO idea what I did. I'm not really worried about her. Cause I know we will get close again. But I'm worried about the situation with my love

Cherished · 12/04/2015 3:49 pm

From your posts you can see exactly what you did. You keep bringing up the same story, and therefore perpetuating what you don't want. Your fears and insecurities keep popping up for you because you are regularly paying them attention. You must deliberately start to focus on the opposite end of things. You will need to work your way out of it by reaching for thoughts that feel better than the ones you're currently thinking.

bernardo09 · 12/04/2015 4:10 pm

Come on Dan.Focus on what you really want, and forget all the rest. Nothing else matters. I´m with you brother!

Dan2015 · 12/04/2015 4:19 pm

I just don't know how to get pass this. Things just seem so impossible right now

Blessedck · 12/04/2015 6:03 pm

Dan2015, I agree with Cherished and bernardo09. Can you say with a 100% guarantee that you did not entertain any negative thoughts and feelings? I do recall you wondering when will your girl contact you and why she wasn't as talkative. I feel that you have had underlying fears and that is why you are seeing such things. However, this doesn't mean you won't get your girl. You have to be willing to make changes to see the awesome results. I think you can do this!

Dan2015 · 12/04/2015 6:16 pm

I think I manifested this new guy as well, the other day I was just telling myself. "She's probably not talking to me much because she started talking to a new guy"

Allgood · 12/04/2015 6:30 pm

You need to go back and remember the advice you have been given by some fantastic people here. Cherished is correct what she is saying . you need to listen!!. We are all here for you but for a start you need to put some proper focus into you!! . your totally obsessed with whoes shes with and why hasn't she contacted you for 1 day or 2 days blah blah. .

You need to relax and love yourself that's so important Dan.

Help yourself and help others on here. It's a great way to raise your vibrations but please stop with the same posts of negetivty. It's destroying you bud and if I'm honest it's not nice to read either as I feel your pain but only you can make the right steps.we can't do it for you. We can advise and perk u up but you must do the heavy lifting buddy!!!

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Dan2015 · 12/04/2015 6:57 pm

I see everything you guys are saying, and I know what I HAVE to do. But I just don't know HOW to right now. Before the last few days. I was really beyond happy. Then a few days ago my knee started hurting and it brought a downward spiral. Than the girl I had a semi crush on just started becoming distant with me. And then my love tells me what she told me today. The sad thing is. I don't think I've been in a positive mindset for a whole week since like mid August(even before we brokeup).

12/04/2015 9:58 pm

Sam wrote:
Dan, I think you're in the same boat as me right now and you have to stop thinking so much about your love, and switch your focus to what your real issues are. For me I realized that it's that I feel I don't deserve my guy and that's why I'm afraid he won't come, so that's what I have to start working on.

I think you have to really analyze yourself and be really honest about what your exact problems are. But I think in order to do this and be successful you have to put your love aside for a little while, even if that means not talking to her for a while. And if you're afraid to stop talking to you her then that right there shows that you are too afraid to be able to attract her back right now.

Remember that the Universe sees right through our crap, it knows what our real vibration is, no matter how well we fool ourselves. If we have underlying insecurities and limiting beliefs, we're not going to be able to get what we want. Don't keep sabotaging yourself. We have to stop and deal with these problems first before we can start going in the right direction.

Sam, thank you for writing this - it really resonated with me and made me think about my own beliefs and how i feel about my self. i'm going to work on myself in the self-love department. you make a really good point that we can't spend so much time focusing on the other person and forget about ourselves - it's all about us. we deserve to treat ourselves the way we want our person to treat us.

thank you for this reminder! <3

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