Cherished wrote:

nsquared wrote:

Blessedck wrote:

Just an example of what happens when you stop stalking. My friend was obsessed with the girl she thought her guy was talking to. She stopped stalking a month ago and boom our friend told her that she heard they aren't talking anymore! Isn't that amazing?

Seriously stalking is like poison

it really is!! just recalling this one guy i was previously infatuated with, my negative focus/stalking always created exactly what i didn't want lol with such an intense negative focus, we manifest those things that we do not want merely because we're so nervous and anxious about our person having another person that isn't us.

BUT, that does not matter! NOT AT ALL. isn't that so great? like you said blessedck, once we just ignore that and focus on the reality we want, everything comes together.

thank you for sharing your friend's example- such a great reminder! 

 
I loves much that you recognize this! It's true,  NONE OF IT MATTERS! Ticket to your freedom,  right there 😊

Cherished, it is my ticket to freedom!! I love it!!

black08 wrote:

Thanks, everyone, for you input.  I do truly believe that he is my love and is contacting me to express his feelings of love and desire for me.  I am increasing my vibrations slowly but surely, and I know that he is thinking about me every day and missing me.

A new thought I had - do you all talk about your intentions with other people?  I was telling a friend about my thoughts and feelings and I didn't feel bad about it while I was doing it, but then I was wondering if I should be keeping things to myself?  I mean they say to speak it into existence, so I think as long as it feels good and true it's okay?

I'm happy to hear that you are working on increasing your vibrations. You are probably doing way better than you actually think!

All of my friends and family members knew about my guy and they would ask a lot of questions after things went sour. I didn't get much support from anyone because they told me to move on. I don't blame anyone because I know they just wanted me to be happy. A few of my friends thought I was crazy when I mentioned LOA. Thus, I stopped telling people anything and I just keep it to myself.