Sam wrote:

Blessedck wrote:

Does everyone have active faith???

I did yesterday. Last night I hit a point I never have before. I was in total alignment.. I could just tell. I just KNEW. And ugh, it was the greatest feeling!! I felt totally connected to my love, I knew I already had him, and I truly felt content with that, and when I thought about him coming, it didn't even matter anymore cause I already had him! It was the most amazing feeling. And a bunch of my friends were texting me, and two people from school messaged me online. I was ALREADY attracting people to me in just one evening.

Now I went and let other people's opinions bring me down again.
(I read reviews on Manifesting Love, people were complaining it didn't work.) 

But there were also success stories, one person even got engaged just after 2.5 months of getting her love back!

Gosh, I don't know why I focus on the bad and not the good, especially when there's so much good.
At this point I can't even tell what I'm afraid of.

Afraid of failing? Or maybe of actually succeeding??

WHY can't I just get over my fear and do this! There's so much proof that it can be done.


 

I know that feeling. I think it's just years of conditioned beliefs and fears that might be holding us back just a bit. Like we hear "take that leap" but we're like "well what if we fail and fall? how embarrassing..." it's like we're scared to fail cause it'll be embarrassing that we were so hopeful for no reason? i think faith takes some time to build up because of years of conditioning, but it'll happen and if other people can do it why can't you, ya know? and reading some forums you're like "wow okay if she was able to turn THAT situation around and hers seems a lot worse than mine, then i definitely can turn mine around" so uh yeah lol

don't focus on the fear and it'll go away very soon. just keep doing what you're doing and keeping that good energy flowing. we'll both be with our people very soon

Blessedck wrote:

I'm glad this could help! It's the absolute truth! 😃

Thank you! You encourage so many people here, myself included! 😘

nsquared wrote:

Blessedck wrote:

Does everyone have active faith???

i would say yes? but i've been doing a lot of what you wrote in your first post like when a doubt does creep in, i'll say to myself 'i choose to know he's my boyfriend, that i work at ____, etc." and feel those feelings and i feel it getting stronger each day!

I'm so happy to hear that! The feelings do get stronger each day and I'm sure you feel less anxious and doubtful. It's all about how we train our minds. I never thought it was possible to be confident all the time but I realized I was a fool to think that. It was always in mind.

You're doing great! I can't wait to hear your success story!!

nsquared wrote:

Sam wrote:

Blessedck wrote:

Does everyone have active faith???

I did yesterday. Last night I hit a point I never have before. I was in total alignment.. I could just tell. I just KNEW. And ugh, it was the greatest feeling!! I felt totally connected to my love, I knew I already had him, and I truly felt content with that, and when I thought about him coming, it didn't even matter anymore cause I already had him! It was the most amazing feeling. And a bunch of my friends were texting me, and two people from school messaged me online. I was ALREADY attracting people to me in just one evening.

Now I went and let other people's opinions bring me down again.
(I read reviews on Manifesting Love, people were complaining it didn't work.) 

But there were also success stories, one person even got engaged just after 2.5 months of getting her love back!

Gosh, I don't know why I focus on the bad and not the good, especially when there's so much good.
At this point I can't even tell what I'm afraid of.

Afraid of failing? Or maybe of actually succeeding??

WHY can't I just get over my fear and do this! There's so much proof that it can be done.


 

I know that feeling. I think it's just years of conditioned beliefs and fears that might be holding us back just a bit. Like we hear "take that leap" but we're like "well what if we fail and fall? how embarrassing..." it's like we're scared to fail cause it'll be embarrassing that we were so hopeful for no reason? i think faith takes some time to build up because of years of conditioning, but it'll happen and if other people can do it why can't you, ya know? and reading some forums you're like "wow okay if she was able to turn THAT situation around and hers seems a lot worse than mine, then i definitely can turn mine around" so uh yeah lol

don't focus on the fear and it'll go away very soon. just keep doing what you're doing and keeping that good energy flowing. we'll both be with our people very soon

Nsquared, your explanations are awesome!!!

Sam wrote:

Blessedck wrote:

Sam, first of all I want to say be proud of the fact that you were able to feel connected to your guy and for manifesting some messages from friends. You simply can't ignore your achievements. On the other hand, I understand that reading those reviews made you feel bad. However, before jumping to any conclusions can you say with a 100% guarantee that the people who gave those reviews were indeed 100% positive and completely trusted the universe? If you can prove to me that you know EXACTLY every thought, feeling, and belief they had then lol I'll give you my first paycheck as a doctor.

You are right, I should be proud! Because I've never had that happen before and the fact that it did just shows how much my mind is expanding and accepting new things.

I can 100% guarantee that they WEREN'T 100% positive and completely trusted in the Universe. No wonder it didn't work for them. I always find it so interesting that half my mind acknowledges that inevitable fact, while the other half cowers in fear the same will happen to me - which it won't.

Blessedck wrote:

Sorry, I'm not trying to be mean but I just want you to recognize that we can't base our lives on what others say. I too have been discouraged in the past when I used to look up loa articles and they would say you can't attract someone. I would start crying and thought my life was over. Trust me I used a lot of kleenex lol. I don't want you to cry or be upset because it will only make matters worse.

Not mean at all! This is something I've realized about myself very recently and it's something I've started to work on. It all comes down to not loving myself enough. That's really what all of this comes down to actually.

Blessedck wrote:

I absolutely loved nsquared's explanation. It's not your fault that you are having some difficulty taking that leap of faith. I did too. After shedding millions of tears, hours of stalking, and feeling like crap I told myself that this is not the girl I used to be. People loved my bubbly and happy go lucky personality. I wanted to be that girl again. With Veronica's amazing help and this lovely forum, I am that girl again and I don't care about what the world says or what I see. I know my relationship with my guy exists and so does yours!

Starting today, take an oath and tell yourself that Sam is entitled to the relationship she wants and everything else her heart desires! I am expecting a wedding invite to your wedding. Where will it be?

You and nsquared definitely put a smile on my face and made me feel good tonight, so thank you for that. I get exactly what you're saying here. This up and down, happy and sad girl is not me. Not at all. But I notice the real me popping out more often, when a month ago she was nowhere to be found. If baby steps is what it takes then that's what I will do, because I'm sure as heck not going to give up.

Ironically I haven't given any thought to my wedding at all! But I do know that I want a nice big, tear drop shaped moonstone engagement ring. I know the exact one.

A friend suggested to me that I create a Pintrest and start planning my wedding there. I'm totally going to do that.

Sam, reading your post made me happy! You are doing such a great job in understanding your weaknesses and strengths. Now that you know these, just work on them! You ARE going to manifest that beautiful ring and super beautiful wedding! I love Pintrest!