Thanks Sam and Blessedck xxx

I agree with Sam and Blessedck. And from my own experience, I can very clearly pinpoint the difference and resulting manifestations.

When you get that sudden urge to contact someone, what were you doing beforehand? What were you thinking and feeling? I've had moments before where I thought "A-ha!! I am suddenly inspired to contact my guy,  it must be time! " But I was missing him greatly or feeling sad or getting antsy about our lack of contact.  And he would either not respond at all, or with one-word, very dull answers 😜

On the flip side, there have been many times AFTER we re-established our contact- where I have been thoroughly enjoying myself, and suddenly felt an impulse to share my joy or appreciation or something very funny that was occurring. Or I would experience something that ONLY my guy would understand, and I'd feel genuinely delighted to share it with him. The biggest difference is in your vibration at the time. If you're somewhere in the love-zone, you are automatically very unconditional. Meaning, you GENUINELY don't need/want desperately a response from them. In that vibration, you are purely giving, in an unconditional way. The former action-journey is FULL of conditions.. And the lower your vibration, the more you will be yearning for reciprocity.

That you everybody .you have all answered my question perfectly all togett. Well done and thank you!

If you don't ask you will never know ;)