Very well said nsquared. If his social networking sites are causing you stress then I recommend that you either unfollow him, delete the app if it's on your phone, or just don't go on any social media.

If you are feeling happy when you visualize yourself with your guy then I'm 100% positive you will see results. There is no wrong way of visualizing. In the beginning, I wanted to make sure I was visualizing properly so I would email Veronica and ask her so many questions but she made me realize that it's all about how you feel and holding onto the belief that what you are visualizing is indeed true.

Good luck!

Jenny wrote:

Blessedck is right! She always give the best advices😘

Just stop worrying about the social media, it's not important. The important part is you visualize and even a little RS will help you a lot!

Jenny, that's so sweet of you to say!! Thanks!! 😃 You also give great advice! Thanks

dreamer7 wrote:

I found peace when i deactivated my Facebook account, deleted snapchat, instagram, blah blah blah. 
Even the random stuff, like some instagram posts about dating and stuff, which were basically meant to be funny, used to lower my vibrations. Ever since i deleted all of it, I realised i was happier. And i was happy and calm and at good vibrations all the time. Give it a try

Dreamer7, that's so good that you felt so much happier! You're on the right track. Keep it up!

black08 wrote:

Thank you all for the advice.  I do truly feel that he is going to be contacting me to tell me he messed up and that he wants us to be back together.  We haven't talked in four months and our last encounter upset me.  I have rewritten the situation though.  I know it will hit him soon that we are not together and he wants me back as his girlfriend.  I am trying to maintain a happy, positive vibration, but the pictures on social media really get my mind going, and I start to assume things - I do snap out of it and tell myself there is no truth to my negative thoughts, that the only truth is that he loves me and wants to be with me. 

What sort of affirmations do you all say, especially those who have since had contact?  Is saying "he is going to" wrong?  Should it be more present?

Hi black08,

I know exactly how you feel because I haven't talked to my guy in awhile. I don't like saying that I haven't talked to him in awhile because I don't want to waste time talking about things that don't matter. However I thought I would tell you so you wouldn't feel as if no one understands how you're feeling.

I highly recommend that you either deactivate your accounts or unfollow him because I think you won't be able to completely trust the universe until all doubts are gone. And, it's apparent that the posts you see on social media are bothering you. I'm sure you have read a million times that stalking is bad and whatever you focus on becomes your reality. I had read that also but to to be honest I used to think that was all bs.

To make a long story short, there was this girl who used to like everything my guy put up on social media. I was so obsessed with what she was doing that she literally  liked every single thing and it drove me crazy. I focused on her for about a year and I realized that the more I focused on her, I was giving her more energy up to the point that she started liking everything his parents put up too. I was so mad. At first it was just him, then after a few months she was becoming close with his family. If this wasn't crazy enough, I had focused on her SO much that out of nowhere I found out that she was my friend's boyfriend's cousin. I was literally seeing her everywhere!

Honestly, everytime he would put up a picture, I would franticly look to see who liked and commented on his pictures. It was so painful to see random girls liking his stuff and to make it worse I would look up those girls and stalk them too. It was literally a horrible cycle.

Seeing random girls all over his page made my fears and doubs extremely strong. I still remember one day I just started crying in my car and said I can't take this anymore. And, this is when I met Veronica. She told me to stop focusing on her and just focus on what I want. At first, my brain wouldn't allow me to believe that this would work but then I was so upset that I had no other choice. Believe it or not, but after completely ignoring her or any other girl that liked his stuff or commented on his pictures, my friend called me to say that "I know you don't look at his posts anymore but all those girls are gone and none of them are liking or commenting on his pictures or posts!"

That's all it took! After 3-4 months of ignoring everything I saw on social media, I stopped giving energy to random girls and they were all gone. I was literally shocked when I heard this. This made me realize that I had wasted so much time and energy on things I don't want rather than what I do want.

After all the girls were gone, I wondered why isn't he with me and that's when it occurred to me that for the past several months, I just believed that no girl would be in his life. And, this did come true. However, I forgot to believe in the most important thing which was that I am the only girl he loves.

So now, I know what I did wrong and as a result that is why I started that thread called Blessedck's Journey, in which I'm deliberately making sure that I focus on what I want because after all I do create my life!

Thus, my advice to you is that just believe that you are his wife and he loves you dearly! That's what I do! I told myself that I was so naive to not realize that LOA is really easy. All I have to do is project the feelings of having my desire fulfilled and as result the Universe has no choice but to make it happen.

Be relaxed, calm, confident, and happy. We can't predict when our guys will show up in our physical reality but I do believe that my perfect relationship with him is a fact and it's happening right now. Just knowing that allows me to not give a damn about what is going around me. What we are seeing today is seriously the effects of past thoughts thus if you persistently believe that he is yours then without a doubt you will be seeing him in your physical world very soon!

Last edited by Blessedck (12/01/2015 3:35 pm)