Hi... why don't u try to do what she did..... may be it will work

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1st - Doubt that LOA will not work.
Know it is working continuosly whether you believe in it or not. Our current reality is based on matching vibration. If you want to match vibration to be in a relationship with specific person, you need to be at peace that you are with that specific person.
Actually, you don't doubt LOA, you doubt your own manifesting powers. I also have the same issue and i also thought may be LOA will not work for me. But it is working every moment. Whenever i see outside and current vibration, it always matches. So, don't worry whether it will happen or not.

Just vibrate yourself at that level. You will know you are vibration on the level of your desire when you feel peace (no doubt) with your desire. Imagining and affirmations are just tools of that vibration. You have to be one with your desire. 

Neville said, to remove doubt, we just have to believe or assume before bed. And we have to sleep in that assumption. It will create matching vibration if persistent.

2nd - Impatience
Regarding impatience, i have noticed one thing. If we are negative about any desire and become impatient, we tend to think more negative thoughts and this goes against us because it leads to a vibration which is not your desire.

But if we are positive towards our desire, we tend to think positive and become impatient. Neville told that we have to eliminate that hunger by experiencing (imagining) our desire. The moment the hunger for that desire is removed, it will manifest.

So, the basic point is you will have to remove doubt that LOA isn't working. It's working. Know without doubt. If you haven't got your desire previously, it's only because you were not vibrating on the level of your desire. So, from today, remove this doubt. If you will not believe, then also it will work by not giving your desire.

We are living in a multidimensional universe, so past is not related to present or future. Forget about the past. If you assume, it doesn't exist, it will vanish.

"And i notice that i think about him less often"
This is good if you are sad when thinking about him. But you should see him now in a new light. Think about him often but in a positive way.
You have to feed your imagination so that it will reach a critical mass (or your subconscious will believe).. So, thinking less about him will not work.

Do this from today:

1) Know LOA is working continuosly and everything is possible regardless of time.
2) Trust yourself that you will be successful no matter what.
3) Forgive him and forgive yourself. Forget your past. It will vanish, even in your outer cirumstances.
4) Become impatient in a positive way. You want a relationship... Think this way... Someone says to you that you will be reuniting with him next month and it is certain. Notice how will you feel, You will feel "Wow i am reuniting. I will do this when i will meet him etc". You will be Impatient but in a positive way. U know that it is certain and you will start imagining the scenerios. This is exactly what you need to feel and do. Here, you have to be certain that it will happen when you start vibrating at the level of your desire. This will happen like this... You start imagining today that you are with your lover, and daily imagining that you are in a relationship. As your mind doesn't know the difference in imagination and reality. It will start accepting your imagination as truth and the moment, you will feel natural, it will manifest.

All the Best..!! 

rose wrote:

1st - Doubt that LOA will not work.
Know it is working continuosly whether you believe in it or not. Our current reality is based on matching vibration. If you want to match vibration to be in a relationship with specific person, you need to be at peace that you are with that specific person.
Actually, you don't doubt LOA, you doubt your own manifesting powers. I also have the same issue and i also thought may be LOA will not work for me. But it is working every moment. Whenever i see outside and current vibration, it always matches. So, don't worry whether it will happen or not.

Just vibrate yourself at that level. You will know you are vibration on the level of your desire when you feel peace (no doubt) with your desire. Imagining and affirmations are just tools of that vibration. You have to be one with your desire. 

Neville said, to remove doubt, we just have to believe or assume before bed. And we have to sleep in that assumption. It will create matching vibration if persistent.

2nd - Impatience
Regarding impatience, i have noticed one thing. If we are negative about any desire and become impatient, we tend to think more negative thoughts and this goes against us because it leads to a vibration which is not your desire.

But if we are positive towards our desire, we tend to think positive and become impatient. Neville told that we have to eliminate that hunger by experiencing (imagining) our desire. The moment the hunger for that desire is removed, it will manifest.

So, the basic point is you will have to remove doubt that LOA isn't working. It's working. Know without doubt. If you haven't got your desire previously, it's only because you were not vibrating on the level of your desire. So, from today, remove this doubt. If you will not believe, then also it will work by not giving your desire.

We are living in a multidimensional universe, so past is not related to present or future. Forget about the past. If you assume, it doesn't exist, it will vanish.

"And i notice that i think about him less often"
This is good if you are sad when thinking about him. But you should see him now in a new light. Think about him often but in a positive way.
You have to feed your imagination so that it will reach a critical mass (or your subconscious will believe).. So, thinking less about him will not work.

Do this from today:

1) Know LOA is working continuosly and everything is possible regardless of time.
2) Trust yourself that you will be successful no matter what.
3) Forgive him and forgive yourself. Forget your past. It will vanish, even in your outer cirumstances.
4) Become impatient in a positive way. You want a relationship... Think this way... Someone says to you that you will be reuniting with him next month and it is certain. Notice how will you feel, You will feel "Wow i am reuniting. I will do this when i will meet him etc". You will be Impatient but in a positive way. U know that it is certain and you will start imagining the scenerios. This is exactly what you need to feel and do. Here, you have to be certain that it will happen when you start vibrating at the level of your desire. This will happen like this... You start imagining today that you are with your lover, and daily imagining that you are in a relationship. As your mind doesn't know the difference in imagination and reality. It will start accepting your imagination as truth and the moment, you will feel natural, it will manifest.

All the Best..!! 

Whoa that's awesome! Impatience can be turned to positivity! That's great I never thought of it that way. Everyone saying impatience is bad but it can totally be a good thing!

What has been helping me stay positive it lying. I text myself and pretend it's him (seema crazy but I label my own contact as him) whenever I go to Disneyland with friends I pretend my friend is him and we spend the day.

I got lie a lot to myself to pretend he is here or that we're gonna see each other later. It sounds crazy but it's worked to keep my vibration up.

I really love how your impatience post completely turned around for something great THANK YOU!

The doubt, I totally reassures me that I'm not the only one who feels that wayhelps but you are totally making it work for yourself and that's good. That's where I struggle. I manifest so much yet I still have the stupid voice in my head that pops up a few times when clearly I have used LOA for me many times.  I guess it cause I still have had silence from him part. Nothing from him for months. But I know it's only now that I've started to truly shift my thoughts so it could now happen quicker. But I will work through it.

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Cherished wrote:

You can see the proof of LOA working right there- you doubt, so he doesn't come! See? LOA is doing exactly what it should at any given time. It's a Law, it works consistently- no exceptions.. I try to see it as a positive that I'm always getting a reflection of my vibration. It helps me to adjust any screwy thinking I have going on. Also, I don't doubt LOA because honestly, my life has never been better since I have decided to make it my only goal to live in love and happiness. How can you doubt the power of that?

I also have trouble with the impatience thing, so don't worry! But I try to reframe that into something useful to my manifesting. When I feel impatient I try and turn it on its head and say "It's fine, I'll see him tonight he's just at work!" And then I think about what will happen tonight! If you take it day by day, just thinking about TODAY as today is really all we have, then you aren't looking into the future as much. Try to focus on things around you- use all your senses of touch and taste and smell, and really try to live in the now. When you do that more, you aren't focused so much on what ISN'T happening yet with your guy. And I also "schedule" my visualisations like a date, so that's my special time with my guy. It has helped me to shift my thinking.

I guess that's right about the doubts. Lots of things have changed since applying this law. Regardless, living in happiness and love  does wonders even if you believe in LOA or not. Even with the doubt or skepticism or try to rebuke LOA, when you live in that love people notice and take change, people people also reflect if you are angry and negative all the time. You're absolutely right, I will have to eliminate that doubts cause clearly my other aspects of my life has changed. and my doubt is one of the factors as to why he isn't here. Its reflects that I am still need to work on my myself before i am the best possible me.

I REALLY like the date idea. I will definitely do that. My visualization ARE my dates with him :* Since it always great to go on different dates, I will change my visualizations now to different scenarios instead of the same repeated one I have been doing. It really is great to think of it that way.

I just haven't been focusing on him or my visualizations the past few days because I am now focusing a lot on me. Its that positive selfishness I have been telling you about ;)

That sounds so much better! Thanks Cherished, you really do give great advice. You've helped me tremendously. Can't wait for all of this to happen and tell you all about it.

Last edited by CarpeDiem (7/25/2015 5:01 pm)

I think I am starting to let go finally.

I still want my ex back but I no longer have an urge to look at his page, or try to see what he is doing. I'm now more focused on myself.

I read constantly that you have let go in order for you to receive. 

I know Veronica says you don't need to move on. I haven't fully moved on but is finally moving towards letting go good or bad for your manifestation. I don't see how it would be negative. But I have been told mixed things.

Also I'm starting to finally let go of the past. I think I am finally close to where I can finally forgive him. Most of the past thoughts I think about are of the great times were we are happy.

I know I asked a lot of these questions but I am just curious and really want to eliminate all the negativity I had. I really want all this negativity in me to be gone permanently. I am done and tired and I want to always be moving forward in positivity, not go back.

Any thoughts..?

Last edited by CarpeDiem (7/26/2015 5:14 am)