Some simple things I do. I Make myself look good, I do things that make me feel good.

When I look nice I feel great. I've been doing a lot of "ME". 

Focus on making yourself feel good. Find beauty in everything And Make you the most important. Be selfish (positively selfish) trust me, you ARE the most important.

Now that I've started making myself the most important thing and put myself on this pedestal I have felt great.

Remind yourself that YOU are important and worthy.

Trust me, this simple thing has helped me immensely feeling great to keep motivated. Radiate that positivity and people will notice. If your trying to seek out a lover this feel good vibe you will have on yourself will get you out of that funk. I don't have my love yet but I avoid or am getting rid that negativity and thoughts I have and that doubt by simple doing this now. I know I am worthy and great and he would be lucky to have me.

That's what's kept me
Motivated and happy.

Trust me I'm not 100% there yet still learning but God I feel better than how I was before by focusing on myself. It'll help you. Trust me.

Last edited by CarpeDiem (7/24/2015 1:02 pm)

You're welcome.

I got tired of being sad and I realized I was sad because I kept focusing on him and the lack of him.

Trust me, I was a mess when I first started with Veronica and tho I did improve a lot of things in my life with her help I was still a mess about my love. I sucked at staying positive about my situation with him. Then I got here and great people started to help me shift my mind.

It was the lack of my lover that made me not feel good. It finally mentally Slapped myself in my face and told myself to get it together, I am strong! I told myself that I was tired of being sad so I just decided I NEED TO make myself happy. It's not about him or her or whoever, it's about you. It took a while to finally realize this but it's never too late. I'm still learning just like you but I feel better than I did when I first got here.

You do you and you make yourself happy. Im here with you. You got this.

That's it,  Carpe Diem.  Now you've got it!!  I'm so excited to see you posting like this 😘
It really, truly is all about that turning point where you realise you can control your emotions. And as you said, it's just changing those thoughts to more empowering ones until they stick! What you've exemplified beautifully is that it takes no time at all to get out of a funk when you simply focus and redirect your thoughts very deliberately. That's all there is to it. It just takes a little offirt to keep those new thoughts front and centre for a few days. Don't you feel wonderful knowing that you can turn your whole thinking around in just a few days? That's creating at its best! It's about feeling better every single day 💖

I really wish I had support like this in real life to help me and guide me I feel so lost and I just wish people would support me in real life this makes me cry so much .. I just want to fix everything

Thank so much ! I need to get myself together and put myself on the pedestal I'm just having w hard time I want my life to go back to the way it was and not a mess any more I'm tired of it