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Blessedck · 11/26/2015 1:57 am

As you guys know, I'm changing myself and I think I'm doing good because I actually feel relaxed and confident. Nonetheless, I have a question.

After my relationship ended with my guy, a few people had told me that it's a good thing it ended because he was a player and he was just using you. I was upset when I heard that but I never felt as if he played me. I forgot about that but today my cousin who is my guy's good friend told my sister that my guy is a big player but he's a nice guy. My cousin also stated that I would never introduce you girls to him. My cousin didn't know about our relationship because he lives in a different state and I never told him because he considers me to be his baby sister.

Despite hearing all of this, I still am not affected and I still love him and know he would make a great husband. Then after a few minutes, I wondered if I was a fool to ignore what people have said about him. I'm just ignoring what people have said and I do believe people change and I believe I'm the girl my guy changed for and he only loves me.

Just wanted to share this with you guys because I feel so much better after talking to you guys. Thanks for listening.

Cherished · 11/26/2015 2:07 am

You will only experience from a person what you are vibrating at. So if you are feeling wonderful and you go about your day, you will rendezvous with people who are also happy and cheerful and behaving wonderfully. If on the other hand, you are feeling insecure or angry or ugly, you will spend your day having interactions that will reinforce or mimic those lower vibrations.

Now, focussing on someone you have a history with.. Again, it's about what you're vibrating. So if you think he's a player, then that will be the way he behaves in your experience. If you truly believe he is completely different with YOU, then he WILL BE in YOUR experience. It's entirely up to you. Write your script, give him his role, and focus implicitly on that, to the exclusion of all else. And he will behave in that way towards you. Now others will have a different vibe going on, and different expectations or memories. So they will pull different experiences from him when they meet with him. This all comes down to you.

Blessedck · 11/26/2015 2:12 am

Cherished, that makes so much sense. I have been having great experiences with people and everyone seems so sweet and friendly. That's why I was caught off guard when my sister told me this today. In my script, he is amazing, wonderful, loyal, and above all he loves me a lot. I'm not listening to people. I guess I was not expecting to hear such things about him.

So, you're saying that the reason why some people might say such things about him are because of their past thoughts and beliefs about him? And, the reason why I feel differently is because I have different expectations from him and perhaps that is the reason why I'm not affected by what I heard?

Thanks Cherished

Cherished · 11/26/2015 2:34 am

Of course! And people also reflect your fears back to you.. If you listen to people they will sometimes give you the gift of unconsciously highlighting your deep fears.. just saying 😘💜

Blessedck · 11/26/2015 2:38 am

Cherished wrote:
Of course! And people also reflect your fears back to you.. If you listen to people they will sometimes give you the gift of unconsciously highlighting your deep fears.. just saying 😘💜

I never thought this but I'm glad you pointed this out. Even if there was any deep fear, it's gone now! I create my own life and I'm blessed to be able to do this! Therefore, I only experience what I want to experience!! Thanks cherished! 😃

Allgood · 11/26/2015 2:41 am

Blessedck wrote:
Cherished wrote:
Of course! And people also reflect your fears back to you.. If you listen to people they will sometimes give you the gift of unconsciously highlighting your deep fears.. just saying 😘💜
I never thought this but I'm glad you pointed this out. Even if there was any deep fear, it's gone now! I create my own life and I'm blessed to be able to do this! Therefore, I only experience what I want to experience!! Thanks cherished! 😃

You are really opening up your mind Blessedck. Well done, I love your posts .they are so honest and alot of us can relate .

Keep up your excellent work gorgeous

Cherished · 11/26/2015 2:51 am

You're welcome, beautiful.. Soon this will all become second nature to you. Try to remember.. Every moment, every situation, every interaction is an opportunity to either reaffirm or reframe your story. Know your truth. See it in your imagination so clearly that it becomes your normal. And project it out into the ethers until it appears before your physical eyes. You're doing so wonderfully well 💜🌈

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Blessedck · 11/26/2015 2:54 am

Allgood wrote:
Blessedck wrote:
Cherished wrote:
Of course! And people also reflect your fears back to you.. If you listen to people they will sometimes give you the gift of unconsciously highlighting your deep fears.. just saying 😘💜
I never thought this but I'm glad you pointed this out. Even if there was any deep fear, it's gone now! I create my own life and I'm blessed to be able to do this! Therefore, I only experience what I want to experience!! Thanks cherished! 😃
You are really opening up your mind Blessedck. Well done, I love your posts .they are so honest and alot of us can relate .

Keep up your excellent work gorgeous

Allgood, thank you so much for saying that! It made me so happy! I'm really glad you find honesty in my posts and you can see a change! You guys rock!

Blessedck · 11/26/2015 2:56 am

Cherished wrote:
You're welcome, beautiful.. Soon this will all become second nature to you. Try to remember.. Every moment, every situation, every interaction is an opportunity to either reaffirm or reframe your story. Know your truth. See it in your imagination so clearly that it becomes your normal. And project it out into the ethers until it appears before your physical eyes. You're doing so wonderfully well 💜🌈

Cherished, thank you so much for your amazing advice! Lol I take so many screen shots of your posts and replies! Thank you for always supporting me!

Cheer · 11/26/2015 3:55 am

Thanks for asking this question, because I know exactly what you mean. Cherished has once again cleared it up with her beautiful wise words.
I get the negative statements about my guy from close friends and I know they mean well, but I just ignore it now. And do you know what, It's so true what Cherished said about people being a reflection of how you feel and your fears, because when I'm feeling good, friends will never say such statements. It's only when I feel down and insecure that they just blurt these words out.
So here's to feeling wonderful and writing a great script. You're doing really well Blessedck

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