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Wanting To Give Up!
I saw myself making progress, I was beginning to get a lot of signs regarding my boyfriend relationship stuff seemed to be changing. But today my friend dared me to text him (part of it was me wanting him and I to talk already) so I messaged him something funny.
He hasn't answered then I looked back at the last thing he told me which was to not even bother messaging him back because he isn't going to answer, leave him alone and a lot of other negative things. It was about a month and a half since him and I talked until I messaged him today.
I feel like I should give up because the message is a white circle with a check on facebook which could mean he's busy because he does work and hasn't been near his phone. But I don't know how to feel about him not answering. It's honestly nerve wracking waiting for him to answer, I want to give up and not go on my trip in April to see him as a surprise because we still aren't talking. I'm just really discouraged he hasn't answered me. 
Ps. I know I'm going to get comments saying that he's not answering because I'm believing he isn't going too, that I should stop and that I shouldn't give up on him, nor should I have texted him first. It's just hard to stop these thoughts right now because I tend to over think when it comes to him and he has mentioned it before. I just really want him to answer me text because right now I'm convinced he's muted my messages on Facebook and that's why he isn't answering me. Sigh. Help please
- rosetinted
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Re: Wanting To Give Up!
I've been there! I AM there depending on the hour or the day lol 
Just keep reading success stories and do anything you can to feel good. I am keeping reminding myself my vibe speaks WAY louder than any text can think that too!
Don't give up, why give up on something you know in your heart you want! I read somewhere you don't have any desire unless you can achieve it.
I know it's hard and I'm in the same situation, trust me my guy said some awful things to me, but remember you create everyone's response to you, so that means you can change it in a heartbeat! It can just take the 'reality' a while to reflect it back to you.
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- Blessedck
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I agree with rosetinted
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There's a reason Veronica suggest to don't make the first contact. I know it's hard! My man didn't contacted me during 5 whole months! And imagining him contacting me was crazy because the last thing he texted me was "you must root me out of your life"
But he contacted me eventually. He will contact you and you are going to remember me saying I told you!!
PLEASE CORRECT ME IF I MAKE A GRAMMATICAL MISTAKE! I'm still learning;)
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Re: Wanting To Give Up!
rosetinted wrote:
I've been there! I AM there depending on the hour or the day lol
Just keep reading success stories and do anything you can to feel good. I am keeping reminding myself my vibe speaks WAY louder than any text can
Don't give up, why give up on something you know in your heart you want! I read somewhere you don't have any desire unless you can achieve it.
I know it's hard and I'm in the same situation, trust me my guy said some awful things to me, but remember you create everyone's response to you, so that means you can change it in a heartbeat! It can just take the 'reality' a while to reflect it back to you.
Xxx
Lovely post x
- harleenquinzel
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I get that Veronica suggest not to text first, but i was dared and in part it was me just wanting us to talk already. I'm going out to surprise him in April but now I'm second guessing even going because we still aren't talking and just giving up point blank, I'm a very impatient person so I already regret texting him. But I noticed he still hasn't been on so maybe there is hope he'll answer but I just feel like if he doesn't I should go to go see him. :/
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Thread Starter- harleenquinzel
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It's just really hard waiting to see if he'll answer me. Whether it be to that text or in general which is what discourses me but today I've been seeing a lot of 1111.
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Thread Starter- Dan2015
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I get that Veronica suggest not to text first, but i was dared and in part it was me just wanting us to talk already. I'm going out to surprise him in April but now I'm second guessing even going because we still aren't talking and just giving up point blank, I'm a very impatient person so I already regret texting him. But I noticed he still hasn't been on so maybe there is hope he'll answer but I just feel like if he doesn't I should go to go see him. :/
Your negative vibe/energy is probably why he didn't reply, I mean trust me I know how it is. But you're coming off desperate, needy, etc(I've done this plenty with my love and she never replied). Get your vibes up, be positive and I bet in a few weeks/months you will talk to him
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