Debbie wrote:

Yes I agree with Veronica and it has generally happened this way to me too. In my case I start getting a few subtle signs of interest first. I think there is sometimes a point (almost always, in my case) where the lover starts missing you and tries to open up the way for you to initiate first (for example, unblocking you on social media or pretending that they have called your number by accident...or whatever).  Just remain open for any of these kind of little signs. Then if you stand firm, keep up with the loa and maintain your resolve not to contact, then finally the lover will be the one to reach out.

Thank you I needed that! X

Jenny wrote:

rosetinted wrote:

Cherished wrote:

CarpeDiem,  so great to see your positive momentum increasing! And you are right, it takes faith and a commitment to changing your thoughts. That's all 😊 I had a period of no contact that lasted a few months initially. It's all about your thoughts. Feeling like a failure is quite low vibrationally, so in order to manifest desires, we must always be reaching for a vibration of appreciation, ease, love etc.

I just searched and found this thread as I have the no contact blues today. It's been a few months after a nasty nasty argument where he said awful things (that yeah I was totally imagining him saying I created it like a pro) then he blocked me.

I get SUCH urges to call or text to see if I'm still blocked, but it's so painful and comes from a place of panic that it's probably not a good idea. I have moments where it feels impossible he will come see me or call me, that's why success stories of similar situations are so helpful.

I've had people say, go see him! Go talk to him! Do something! But I hope my RS will be enough! I'd love him to contact me and chase me this time around.

I've even been like I know I'll write him a letter!!! But that's from a place of fearing he won't come to me, that the universe isn't doing enough for me behind the scenes.

So I might have to tie my hands behind my back for the time being lol...

X

Lol don't tie your hands! Just focus on clearing your vibration.
My love contacted me in the 6th month and we were in NC. Now we are progressing little by little and we even had a deep talk about us.

But believe me, once your love contacts you it is the same as hard to stay positive than when you were waiting for him to make contact. What I am saying is that we (the people that have contact with their loves) don't rest in a hammock drinking margaritas because they now talk to us.(we Should!!!)

NO! Because You still need to watch out for thoughts to REMAIN positive. At least that's for me.

But remember practice is the key!!

Well said Jenny, il remember that xx

if im in a HIGH vibration I can def attract a text within days and usually a meeting ... thing is when im meeting with him im worried abt how I will act if it will turn him away .. I worry abt caring to much or not enuf then this creates distance again ... I totally get that im creating this distance by not relaxing and being my authentic self , im a very emotional person by nature , and I get so overwhelmed when I see him I sometimes cry .. ugh!! last cpl times I saw him I turned off my emotions and it did not go the way I wanted it to .. he totally likes me more as my emotional self .. go figure .. I tht he wld like the indifferent me better .. now I know and heres to next time JUST BEING ME!! he comes around more when im just ME .. imagine that :/

Blessedck wrote:

Rosetinted,

I made the mistake of contacting my guy who I haven't spoken to in months. I was really upset and I just texted him but he didn't reply back but I realized this happened because my vibration was really low. I was fearful and sad. It seemed as if everyone was getting some kind of positive feedback except me and since the 25 day challenge was ending I got more nervous.

Basically, I made a mistake and after talking to everyone on this forum I realized I need to build up my confidence and know 100% that my guy will contact me.

So don't worry. Just believe it and I'm sure our guys will contact us

Thank you for this! It can be so hard to resist those urges in the moment! I'm going to persevere for now and put my trust in the universe, and know it's not all about physical actions. Xxx

beautifulmesss wrote:

if im in a HIGH vibration I can def attract a text within days and usually a meeting ... thing is when im meeting with him im worried abt how I will act if it will turn him away .. I worry abt caring to much or not enuf then this creates distance again ... I totally get that im creating this distance by not relaxing and being my authentic self , im a very emotional person by nature , and I get so overwhelmed when I see him I sometimes cry .. ugh!! last cpl times I saw him I turned off my emotions and it did not go the way I wanted it to .. he totally likes me more as my emotional self .. go figure .. I tht he wld like the indifferent me better .. now I know and heres to next time JUST BEING ME!! he comes around more when im just ME .. imagine that :/

And remember your emotions are so powerful! I cry all the time about all sorts X