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How do you overcome this?
Hi everyone
I've known LOA for some time now and like most of us here I learn about this because of a BU.
I know for a fact that this works. Seeing other success and seeing some success in my life. And I know for a fact that I can attract him back. However, for some reason I don't feel like it's the right thing to do. Like it's against my morals and values - in other words unethical to do this - and I would say this is my biggest resistance
Of course I agree that I attracted all this unintentionally but now by doing it intentionally I don't feel like it's the right thing to do. And it also feels like I'm not respecting his words. I also feel like I'm trying to make him love me again when it should be something natural.
Has anyone felt this before? And how do you overcome this feeling?
Thanks in advance.
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Re: How do you overcome this?
Hi Sam thanks for this
So do you mean I created this feeling of feeling unethical, not right going against my values etc? I'm just trying to sort where this come from?
I guess I'm also stuck in the notion that things should happen naturally between two people rather than someone doing something to make it happen
To be honest I feel more comfortable going general than specific because it makes me feel better that way (like I'm not going against his wishes) however I know in my heart he is who I want.
Like when I tell myself repeatedly I know what I want I know what I want his name always pops up - this is how much I know I want him.
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Re: How do you overcome this?
Sam wrote:
I think you may be having trouble because you feel you are going against his free will. But you are not. Veronica has a video on this you can watch if you'd like!
Here it is.
The only difference between attracting him the first time and attracting him this time is that you're aware you're doing it. It's still natural. If you feel more comfortable going general, then do that! I don't know if you've listened to Abraham Hicks at all but they say that going general is easier because you can cultivate the feelings of an amazing relationship without the stress of focusing on a specific person BUT since in your heart you know you want this man, he will still come to you. You get into the vibration of having an amazing relationship (in general) and he comes to you because the Universe knows he is who you want!
You see, when you desire something, it is already done. In the vibrational reality you are already in a happy relationship with this man. Then what you do is align with that vibration and that allows it to come to fruition in PHYSICAL reality, where you can see it.
If you do not want to use "techniques" to bring this man back then you can just focus on the feelings of having a perfect relationship, and do a visualization here or there with him ONLY for fun and cause it feels good.
Using the LOA isn't supposed to be hard, we just make it hard. The Universe knows what we want and we just have to allow it to come to us. Please do not feel like this is unnatural. What is natural is based on what your vibration is, because remember, you're using the LOA all the time. Right now you're naturally not with him because you're at a low vibration, just like when you were with him it was only natural because you were in a high vibration.
Thank you Sam!
I have watched the video and read Neville too. He also explain that it's freedom of choices we can make. I've also read/watch Abraham says smth similar too.
I think that's what I will continue to do is focus general. Which was smth that I started but for some reason it went back to him naturally (his face would pop up) and it was fun and happy
- so I guess it's still going general if he pops up in my head from time to time? Because I feel that if he does then I'm not going general?
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Thread Starter- Pink
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Re: How do you overcome this?
Thank you so much Sam!!
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Re: How do you overcome this?
Sam, awesome responses here! 💜
If you imagine it in your mind..
Believe it in your heart..
Feel it in your soul..
You will hold it in your hand 💞
Veronica Isles LOA coach veronicaislescoaching.com