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Blessedck · 11/16/2015 7:31 pm

Hi everyone,

I'm really down and upset. I'm trying to get out of this hole which is so scary and I feel as if nothing is going to change.

I took part in the 25 day challenge. Didn't see any change. My guy and I haven't been talking for a very long time and out of frustration I texted him and didn't hear back from him.

At the same time, I made the mistake of looking at his social networking sites. Something which I haven't done in months. I saw that 3 girls were continuously liking his stuff and I clicked on those girls profiles and saw him liking and commenting on their stuff.

After seeing this yesterday I can't focus. I told myself to forget him but I can't. Then I tell myself to accept that I'm going to end up single. And that feels like crap. I even had the urge to contact one of those girls.

I really had wished that this holiday season I would be with him. For the past 2 years, I have been trying to stay positive but I haven't seen any changes.

I haven't felt like this in months that's why I'm upset with myself for behaving like this.
I don't know what to do. Also, I'm taking a board exam for medical school so that's stressful.

Do you guys think it's possible for him to come back even if we haven't talked in months and he pretty much ignored me last time I saw him?

Thanks. I'm so sorry for venting. I know this forum is all about being positive but I don't know who else I can talk to. No one understands loa and think I'm crazy for thinking that he will come back.

Thanks.

Jenny · 11/16/2015 7:42 pm

I am so sorry you feel this way. I know is really awful when you desespair and don't see anything manifested. You know you did wrong by talking him because you were in a low state emotionally. The worst thing you can make now is talking with those girls you don't even know. you don't have to feel less than them only because he's liking their posts.

Please don't go to his Facebook or instagram or twitter. You can still get him back but you need to raise your vibration ASAP!

Concentrate in your exam. Medical school sounds so exiting! Your well being is first, your school too.

Stopthinking about him for a while and make yourself happy. Thats what you need

Blessedck · 11/16/2015 7:49 pm

Jenny wrote:
I am so sorry you feel this way. I know is really awful when you desespair and don't see anything manifested. You know you did wrong by talking him because you were in a low state emotionally. The worst thing you can make now is talking with those girls you don't even know. you don't have to feel less than them only because he's liking their posts.

Please don't go to his Facebook or instagram or twitter. You can still get him back but you need to raise your vibration ASAP!

Concentrate in your exam. Medical school sounds so exiting! Your well being is first, your school too.

Stopthinking about him for a while and make yourself happy. Thats what you need

Thanks Jenny for the support. I definitely won't look at his or those girls social networking sites. Med school is challenging but definitely rewarding.

I also considered not thinking about him but I'm confused because aren't we supposed to think about what we want. I don't want to lose him.

Thanks

Blessedck · 11/16/2015 8:24 pm

After making a conscious effort to monitor my thoughts and feelings and not seeing any results, is the main reason why I'm feeling so upset. It makes me wonder if it's even possible to marry him.

This is why I'm feeling horrible.

Cherished · 11/16/2015 8:52 pm

Honey, I like people's posts all the time, but that doesn't mean I want a relationship with them! You need to look at your vibration. If it were one of joy and happiness, you'd have your guy in your life. So you need to take stock of what is holding you back. We all go through periods like this, and it's ok.. But I hope you can refocus soon. You have exams to prepare for, so try to get into a really good feeling-place about those. Anything is possible. But it really takes effort to raise your vibration and let go of the fears you have. The only reason you do t have something that you want, is if you are resisting it somehow. Try to understand what it is that you are doing to resist him coming into your life. 💜

Blessedck · 11/16/2015 9:59 pm

Cherished wrote:
Honey, I like people's posts all the time, but that doesn't mean I want a relationship with them! You need to look at your vibration. If it were one of joy and happiness, you'd have your guy in your life. So you need to take stock of what is holding you back. We all go through periods like this, and it's ok.. But I hope you can refocus soon. You have exams to prepare for, so try to get into a really good feeling-place about those. Anything is possible. But it really takes effort to raise your vibration and let go of the fears you have. The only reason you do t have something that you want, is if you are resisting it somehow. Try to understand what it is that you are doing to resist him coming into your life. 💜

Thanks Cherished. You're really sweet. I feel so bad for venting and feeling down but only I can change my life. Thanks

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