fizzy wrote:

PrettyFlamingo wrote:

Selflove: Reread your fourth sentence. That is exactly what I have said.

This may be what you intend to say, but it’s not what you actually say to people. Often the comments I see from you are something along the lines of “Why would you want a person who does xyz...”. Which is again, completely ignoring the fact that everyone is you pushed out. Which is ignoring the fact that you create everything. Which is ignoring LOA and in no way relevant to LOA.

I’m not sure why you pointed out one sentence in her post but ignored the rest of what she, Anita, and I have said. I guess it’s all falling on deaf ears.

Selfloveiskey, if you see this, I completely agree. If nothing is going to change and it’s all being ignored and falling on deaf ears, I think there’s really no point in partaking in discussion here. Personally, I’ve found Reddit has some good conscious creation forums. All irrelevant comments are always deleted by moderators.

Agreed. I’ve seen the same comments for years heck even on my old posts ( some not here)  and I did end up getting my guy back more then once. Obviously I still had stuff to learn but I was told time and again why would you want him back get someone better. But yet they got mad when I questioned loa? Doesn’t make sense. Now he actually said a lot of things I visualized and has been so sweet and loving to me for a long time. I remember when I felt horrible and those comments just didn’t help and made me doubt loa more because it seemed like there was always a catch. It didn’t help me,  strangely enough when I stepped away for awhile and was on my own that did more then here lol But yeah there is no point to doing this if they don’t listen. I ll have to check out reddit. I do think moderators here have favorites and they do get rid of the comments they don’t like that doesn’t fit their beliefs.

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thedreamer11 wrote:

You have a beautiful mind Fizzy 

"what this forum was made to discuss, can be confusing to people just starting out in learning to consciously create."

Very true, when I first meet Loa I did become very confused with this mixed approach ( materialism with Loa).

Wow, that’s nice of you to say! Thanks

Cynthia wrote:

I haven't even looked at this forum for over a month and probably won't again, but this has disintegrated into an attack on PrettyFlamingo, and that's not right or justified. She's the only person who has done any real moderation on here for years, and she's been more than fair. Nobody else has cared enough to even be bothered. PF has come a very long way. I understand what she means. It's got nothing to do with the concept of everybody being you pushed out, which I fully agree with. Neither she nor anybody else has said it's not possible for the OP to manifest a relationship with the person in question.

“I don't understand why you would even want a guy who after he is intimate with you disappears then tells you he wants someone else???  You only had 2 dates ( if Im reading that right) you didn't even know him but you know now he is not a good guy...let this loser go   sorry but someone had to say it... he just showed you he is NOT into you and only wanted one thing.he  got it now he is MIA......and you still want him??? lordy people come on...”

Above is Kasper’s comment copy and pasted. PF said she strongly agrees with what Kasper has said here. How does this fall in line with the concept of ‘Everyone is you pushed out’? If PF strongly agrees with this viewpoint, it DOES go against ‘Everyone is you pushed out’. And that’s why the concept was brought up.

I’m not sure why you are viewing this as an attack on PF. All we are saying is things that are clearly not in line with conscious creation, which Kasper’s comment clearly isn’t, should not be allowed here. And honestly, the fact that a moderator on a conscious creation forum ‘strongly agrees’ with such a comment is a bit frustrating. I’m not sugar coating that.

Last edited by fizzy (7/27/2019 1:08 pm)

fizzy wrote:

Cynthia wrote:

I haven't even looked at this forum for over a month and probably won't again, but this has disintegrated into an attack on PrettyFlamingo, and that's not right or justified. She's the only person who has done any real moderation on here for years, and she's been more than fair. Nobody else has cared enough to even be bothered. PF has come a very long way. I understand what she means. It's got nothing to do with the concept of everybody being you pushed out, which I fully agree with. Neither she nor anybody else has said it's not possible for the OP to manifest a relationship with the person in question.

“I don't understand why you would even want a guy who after he is intimate with you disappears then tells you he wants someone else???  You only had 2 dates ( if Im reading that right) you didn't even know him but you know now he is not a good guy...let this loser go   sorry but someone had to say it... he just showed you he is NOT into you and only wanted one thing.he  got it now he is MIA......and you still want him??? lordy people come on...”

Above is Kasper’s comment copy and pasted. PF said she strongly agrees with what Kasper has said here. How does this fall in line with the concept of ‘Everyone is you pushed out’? If PF strongly agrees with this viewpoint, it DOES go against ‘Everyone is you pushed out’. And that’s why the concept was brought up.

I’m not sure why you are viewing this as an attack on PF. All we are saying is things that are clearly not in line with conscious creation, which Kasper’s comment clearly isn’t, should not be allowed here. And honestly, the fact that a moderator on a conscious creation forum ‘strongly agrees’ with such a comment is a bit frustrating. I’m not sugar coating that.

Honestly If Cynthia views this as an attack on PF she needs to view her many many posts saying “disregard this persons advice and this ones and this ones advice all you need is Neville” instead of saying Neville works for her she decides to say that or something like it about anyone else’s advice. That’s belittling everyone else is it not?

fizzy wrote:

PrettyFlamingo wrote:

I'm sitting in the pub with my two best friends now and interrupting my time with them to respond. I agree with Kasper's sentiment as applied to myself and that is the approach I would take if it applied to me. In no way am I advising Olive to take that approach. I personally would not invest time on a person I'd known for a short time who had disappeared as I wouldn't be able to make a judgment about them after two encounters. Others may want to do things differently and that is their right. It's important to decide for yourself what's worth spending time on. That is the point I'm making.

But even just saying that you can’t make a judgment about the person after two encounters is a failure to recognize that YOU create them. There’s no judgment to be made. They don’t have their own personality. YOU create their personality and have the ability to change it — utterly and completely. That’s exactly what ‘Everyone is you pushed out’ MEANS. There is no other meaning to it. So that being said, do you now see why we’ve been saying to you what we have? We are trying to get you to see that even the way you, yourself, would approach this is not in line with conscious creation. And that’s fine. But when you comment on someone’s post who is looking for LOA advice, this isn’t helpful to them. In fact, it’s confusing. Four people have told you this now.

I’m sorry if you feel attacked, you are the one we are all bringing up because it’s YOUR responses that four of us disagree with.

Also sorry if you felt you needed to take time out from being with friends to respond. The beauty of a forum is you have the freedom to respond any time you can.

Agreed