Olive wrote:

Part of me wants to reach out to him but it doesn’t feel good. I want him to reach out to me and want to meet me again on his own. I intend for that.

I would just keep the mental diet of having the relationship right now and don’t take any physical action. The mental diet is enough to manifest what you want. Just stay on top of your thoughts and be persistent. Don’t worry about physical reality at all. Things will change. If you have him right now in your mind, why would you miss him? Remember, it’s not delusional. Imagination is more real than physical reality. Physical reality is just the after effect of what’s going on in your mind.

Kasper80 wrote:

I don't understand why you would even want a guy who after he is intimate with you disappears then tells you he wants someone else???  You only had 2 dates ( if Im reading that right) you didn't even know him but you know now he is not a good guy...let this loser go   sorry but someone had to say it... he just showed you he is NOT into you and only wanted one thing.he  got it now he is MIA......and you still want him??? lordy people come on...

I’m confused as to why you are writing this on an LOA forum. In ‘normal’ forums filled with people who aren’t aware that they are creators, this would probably be considered good advice by most. But because we are aware that we create everything that happens to us, and therefore we have the ability to completely change situations and other people, this advice doesn’t ‘fit’ here. The intention of this forum is to discuss conscious creation, after all.

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PrettyFlamingo wrote:

I agree with both of you. Fizzy is right about consciously creating, but I also strongly agree with Kasper too. If someone did that - but I wouldn't have sex with anyone unless it was a strong, committed relationship - then personally I'd feel they didn't deserve me and I deserved better. I'd not waste my time with an individual like this. I'd be tempted to look at why you want to turn around what was a couple of hook ups, if I'm reading it correctly. Is it because you've slept with the guy you feel it should be a serious relationship?

Yes we can consciously create but that doesn't mean we HAVE to. And there's always room for a bit of analysis as to why we really want, or think we want, something.

But PrettyFlamingo, here’s the thing... everyone is just us pushed out, right? They aren’t us pushed out ‘sometimes’ or ‘only in some situations’. So if you experience someone treating you badly, it’s always still going to be you pushed out. It’s never the other person. It’s always you creating them to be that way.

So the ‘LOA’ approach to something like this is always going to be “What belief am I holding that caused them to show up in my reality that way?”. It’s never going to be “Oh that’s just the way they are and I deserve better, so I’m moving on”. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with deciding to move on. But my point is, there is only one ‘LOA’ way to look at this. And it will only always be that you created it. Any viewpoint that says you didn’t create this is immediately not ‘LOA’.

You’re right that we can choose not to consciously create, but we are always creating, so you can never choose to not create. Saying you can ‘turn off’ your manifesting abilities at will also goes against absolutely everything ‘LOA’.

I’m not trying to start any sort of conflict, just trying to explain myself. I agree there’s room for analysis, as you’ve said. But even any sort of analysis that implies you did not create the person to be that way goes against ‘LOA’. And deviating from ‘LOA’, what this forum was made to discuss, can be confusing to people just starting out in learning to consciously create. Don’t you think we should stick to that type of discussion rather than bringing in non-‘LOA’ viewpoints? It just doesn’t seem very helpful in the long run to me.

Anita wrote:

fizzy wrote:

Kasper80 wrote:

I don't understand why you would even want a guy who after he is intimate with you disappears then tells you he wants someone else???  You only had 2 dates ( if Im reading that right) you didn't even know him but you know now he is not a good guy...let this loser go   sorry but someone had to say it... he just showed you he is NOT into you and only wanted one thing.he  got it now he is MIA......and you still want him??? lordy people come on...

I’m confused as to why you are writing this on an LOA forum. In ‘normal’ forums filled with people who aren’t aware that they are creators, this would probably be considered good advice by most. But because we are aware that we create everything that happens to us, and therefore we have the ability to completely change situations and other people, this advice doesn’t ‘fit’ here. The intention of this forum is to discuss conscious creation, after all.

 
👍👍👍 I dont understand too , why so many people  still give people this type advice on loa forum..

Anita, I don't think Kasper was giving advice. There's a difference between commenting on a post and advising a poster. I very rarely advise anyone.

fizzy wrote:

PrettyFlamingo wrote:

I agree with both of you. Fizzy is right about consciously creating, but I also strongly agree with Kasper too. If someone did that - but I wouldn't have sex with anyone unless it was a strong, committed relationship - then personally I'd feel they didn't deserve me and I deserved better. I'd not waste my time with an individual like this. I'd be tempted to look at why you want to turn around what was a couple of hook ups, if I'm reading it correctly. Is it because you've slept with the guy you feel it should be a serious relationship?

Yes we can consciously create but that doesn't mean we HAVE to. And there's always room for a bit of analysis as to why we really want, or think we want, something.

But PrettyFlamingo, here’s the thing... everyone is just us pushed out, right? They aren’t us pushed out ‘sometimes’ or ‘only in some situations’. So if you experience someone treating you badly, it’s always still going to be you pushed out. It’s never the other person. It’s always you creating them to be that way.

So the ‘LOA’ approach to something like this is always going to be “What belief am I holding that caused them to show up in my reality that way?”. It’s never going to be “Oh that’s just the way they are and I deserve better, so I’m moving on”. There’s absolutely nothing wrong with deciding to move on. But my point is, there is only one ‘LOA’ way to look at this. And it will only always be that you created it. Any viewpoint that says you didn’t create this is immediately not ‘LOA’.

You’re right that we can choose not to consciously create, but we are always creating, so you can never choose to not create. Saying you can ‘turn off’ your manifesting abilities at will also goes against absolutely everything ‘LOA’.

I’m not trying to start any sort of conflict, just trying to explain myself. I agree there’s room for analysis, as you’ve said. But even any sort of analysis that implies you did not create the person to be that way goes against ‘LOA’. And deviating from ‘LOA’, what this forum was made to discuss, can be confusing to people just starting out in learning to consciously create. Don’t you think we should stick to that type of discussion rather than bringing in non-‘LOA’ viewpoints? It just doesn’t seem very helpful in the long run to me.

Yaaaaaas thank you