Dreamyou wrote:

Okay so you’re coming from the “no free-will” side, which nothing wrong with that belief but it’s not really my thing. I definitely believe in LOA and intuition but I think that everybody has their free will as well. I believe I could attract him and he could want to come back but then choose to not.

I didn’t know there were sides to conscious creation lol. But sure, you can create the experience of other people being able to do what they want and you being powerless to that. I have to admit, coming from that perspective, I don’t know the answer to your question then. I guess whatever you choose to do, he would have the final say either way about whether you get what you desire or not.

Dreamyou wrote:

If his reality was of me hating him and my reality is the complete opposite how does that make sense?

I’ll try explaining it a different way. This is gonna sound weird, but imagine that you are playing with two dolls. One doll is you and the other doll is him. The ‘you’ that is playing with the two dolls represents who you really are — God. Some might call it your ‘higher self’. You are in control of everything. The ‘you doll’ that your higher self is playing with represents you in human form — the you who is reading this right now. The doll that is him represents him in human form — the him that you interact with in your reality. Now, picturing this image, you can see that you are controlling yourself and you are also controlling him. Every person in your reality is a doll. The only person who can control these dolls is you. So in this way, everyone is you. Each doll is just a different perspective of the same one person. And that one person is the big you — the person controlling all the dolls. Even right now you can picture this conversation as you holding a doll of you and a doll of me and making our fingers type to each other. You are behind everything. Only you.

Now, I personally see it as we are all the same being, as I just described. So he doesn’t have his own reality. He is simply just a different perspective of the same one being. You could move over and BE him, be his perspective, if you wanted to. But you are choosing to be the perspective of the ‘you doll’ and therefore all the power to create belongs to the ‘you doll’.

That’s the way I view reality and ‘other people’. After studying this a lot, it makes sense to me.

If you feel uncomfortable seeing things this way, maybe the parallel reality way of looking at things would suit you better. This is the way I viewed things for awhile before taking on this view I have now. With a parallel reality perspective, there are many different versions of each person. When you create a relationship with a specific person, the version of that person that you match up with is one that wants the relationship with you, as well. So with that view, there’s no violation of ‘free will’.

In the end, it’s up to you how you decide to view things. But some views are definitely more limiting than others, and we are always told that we have no limits. And the only way this statement can be true is if we create absolutely everything. Otherwise it’s “no limits, except...”