Bella wrote:

Hello , I’m reaching out because I need some opinions/advice.

Ive been divorced 2 years and I was in a lonely marriage for more than I should have.
So now these past 2 years I’ve been interested in a relationship.
I worked on myself a lot but I find myself obsessed with finding a soulmate. I watch others and think wow it’s so easy for them.
I’m an attractive woman, I’m intelligent, kind, fun, great conversation  etc all those things many of us are.
Yet that love that I crave, the passion, the man who just can’t live without me( so to speak) is not here.

Anyone have suggestions on how I can learn to let it go and just allow it to happen.
Or have been in similar  situation and changed it

Thank you all
I’m very Grateful

 
There is a case in one of Joseph Murphy's books in which there was an older lady, I think a widow, who wanted to get married to the right person. Before she went to sleep at night, she repeated to herself that she was loved and wanted and felt herself loved and wanted as she went to sleep, much the same as what Neville recommended, and within a couple of weeks she met a retired pharmacist who was a widower, they fell in love, got married, and then travelled the world, which was also something she'd wanted to do.