yasm wrote:

You need to let go, trust the process, and know that the timing will be just right. Who knows why he didn't respond... who cares? Maybe he was thinking about the game, his other friends, whatever. You can't let him not saying anything disappoint you. It doesn't really mean anything in the grand scheme of things. Feel as though you already have the desired relationship with him; focus and dwell on those feelings 

thanks! I appreciate that! I think my confusion came from the setting of intentions that didn't really work. But you're right. I wasn't really disappointed, just confused, hence the question! thanks again!
 

PrettyFlamingo wrote:

If you're setting the intention of something, you're not living in the end of having it as it's always something to be attained. Have a read of this:

http://realneville.com/txt/Mental_Diets.html

Also, Cynthia mentioned to me that there is a YouTube of this, so I will seek to find itl 

thanks! I already try to keep my mental conversation in check at all times and thought I was doing quite well actually... But yes, please do share the link if you come across it! thank you!
 

Cynthia wrote:

Rainflower wrote:

PrettyFlamingo wrote:

If you're setting the intention of something, you're not living in the end of having it as it's always something to be attained. Have a read of this:

http://realneville.com/txt/Mental_Diets.html

Also, Cynthia mentioned to me that there is a YouTube of this, so I will seek to find itl 

thanks! I already try to keep my mental conversation in check at all times and thought I was doing quite well actually... But yes, please do share the link if you come across it! thank you!
 

 
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=-Pc6JSsbW4U

thank you! I'll listen tonight when home from work!