It is nice to have someone to relate to. Similar to you and your guy, we're not super far apart either. I could drive to his city and then drive home the next day and it wouldn't interfere with my schedule..which we planned for, but I'm not gonna bring it up. He needs to follow through with it. I hate to let doubt creep in, but it's really hard not to when we were talking a lot and then things went back to how they were before I liked him (he has been trying to talk to me for years online and through text, but it was always on and off). I just didn't mind how sporadic things were before because I had no attachment. I just try to keep telling myself that if he wanted to rid himself of me completely, he wouldn't have messaged me. And surely your guy wouldn't have liked your IG posts! Sounds like progress. I keep noticing little signs that I'm not even looking for that kind of give me hope as well. Maybe we just need to be patient and trust the process. I do know that I need to adjust my mindset though for sure, it's just difficult. I think the only reason I was able to adjust it last time was because so many days had passed without hearing from him, so I was starting to think I needed to let go. By the way, he ended up texting me back yesterday, but it just seemed kinda "meh" still. Sighh...trying to remain positive

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Search through posts from Cynthia. You need to live in the end of what you want, which isn't a text, I'm guessing it's a relationship. Find those posts, they're full of information and links.