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Hi, I just wanted to say Hi to everyone. I am Emmanuella I am from Sweden, but i guess it does not matter in LAO hehe ;)
So..my story, me and boyfriend we broke up not even two months ago..its early i know..but i really cared about him. I have done some thinking and I have to say i was very negative and insecure last year but I have been reading books and I went to counseling too last year. I want to be with him because I think we are great couple together and I see lot of good on him, he is a good person. He is willing to talk with me, if I need something I can text to him..but it just makes me hurt because I want to be with him. I asked him many times to get back with me but he refused, we met, but he refused. I have read a lot of LAO and before meeting him I did all kind of stuff but I guess I was really needy and the LAO does not working like that.. I arranged the meeting etc. :/ This morning I have been crying..everything came out..like am I just really silly and stupid believe in LAO? Can this bring him back? Should I text him and say something..but I am scared he says no Em, we dont get back together. and this is stopping the LAO to work and it makes me even more nervous
I have to say, I started to be grateful and happy.. and I had great day, I felt truly happy with myself. Next day he texted but I freaked out because I wanted him so badly to say something I love you. This was few weeks ago. Then he just said the stuff that he is here for me, if I need anything etc.
Sending you all love and happiness. Thank you Veronica for replying me in Youtube channel.
-Emmanuella
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Hi Emmanuela!
The good thing here that I notice is that you point out so many of the good things about him and you aren't focusing on the bad things. So that is great for a start! :-)
It was normal to have a good cry but now you have dried your eyes, decide what your loa plan is going to be and do it regularly. If you remain patient and positive, then it wil work :-)
Last edited by Debbie (2/27/2016 10:11 am)
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Welcome aboard you have discovered by no accident a forum where you will be embraced and helped in your journey to get back your lost love I listen to Veronica and read the forums every day Veronica says don't contact but I think if he contacts you its good to answer But let him tell you he misses you , loves you Some people have all ready succeeded and are still here encouraging the rest of us in technique and support read the posts savor the journey for when you get your life back it will be sweeter
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This is a good place to be, from what I can tell there's so many people here that have manifested their loves back or very close in the process to.
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yeah I hope so.. he seems that he has move on..I asked how is he..i felt okay I miss him and then I texted and he was happy about his new work..he asked how I am doing and I told I am okay and doing great.. but he just seemed that he has moved on..not really talking to me..not missing me I dont think I have enought faith to do this..Like i feel silly.. I am doing LAO and he does not even think about getting back with me
Last edited by emmanuela (11/15/2015 7:10 am)
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it takes time and patience remember its not silly to want what your heart wants you don't know what he is feeling or thinking male bravado and all that that is why no contact you told him you are great to convince yourself while you want him back (see what I mean) he might be fine or he might not Concentrate on YOU concentrate on making yourself happy and visualize what you want feel what you want Don't let the current reality interfere Veronica has some wonderful videos and she will do one on one work with you if you need a jump start
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yeah i got your point well yeah its definitely more attractive to answer i am great than say i feel shitty and I miss you
Now I should try to make this day nice for me
I am doing stuff, going out with my friends, hanging out with them, i even went to a date, I do sports..but no results
but i think I am not doing LAO that well...also it seems difficult to believe this when my friends say LAO is not true and I am only getting false hope
I hope I could somehow manifest but also to move on little bit..that I am not wondering here all the time when he texts me, when we get back etc.
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and thank you, its not silly to be in love I think despite his bad stuff ( we all have bad habits) he is great guy and we had great time together. I am great girl too. I wish you people here in the forum can help me
I guess is good that me and him are okay with each other, we talk..but i guess is better me to "wait" him to iniciate meeting and asking me back together?
I sound crazy but LAO i want to be with him and i want him to ask it. and I wont be talking to him more..not iniciating messages or asking stuff
.-Em
Last edited by emmanuela (11/15/2015 8:06 am)
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you are keeping busy that is great!! distractions are a good thing you will get your love back just have faith and believe Have fun in the journey
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now he texted that "if you need anything, let me know" what should i reply to him? should i say something about that i miss him