nobody?

To answer your question, yes. There isn’t only one version of him and you can create any version of him you like. Just believe him to be however you want him to be to manifest the change.

Anita wrote:

fizzy wrote:

To answer your question, yes. There isn’t only one version of him and you can create any version of him you like. Just believe him to be however you want him to be to manifest the change.

 
what do you think, why some girls  attract  this  version boys?

It has to do with what they believe/expect. On some level, they are expecting to be treated badly, and so that’s what manifests.

Anita wrote:

But what if he was a very jealous? My friend told me, he had a problem just when his girlfriend had a conversations with her friends.  What if it means she had a very positive vibes and selflove and it was a reason why he was so abusive and jelaous? Or why women attract jelaous guy? I had a friend who was still dependent on boy and when she learned live alone and doesnt be so depended so she was meet a boy who was so jelaous on her and he wanted spent all the time with her..I never had a experience with this type  a boys and I dont want have ..but what if I attract this his version too, because I know how he was ..but I really want know him..but Im afraid.

What manifests in a person’s world has nothing to do with positive vibes or self love. It has to do with what they expect. Sure, ‘self love’ can certainly play a part when it comes to how you expect to be treated by someone else, but you could hate yourself and still manifest someone else loving you. It’s just what you believe/expect to be true about someone. You’re not attracting anything to you. It’s manifesting out in front of you. And if you happen to manifest a partner who is jealous or abusive, you can manifest that same person to be trusting and loving just by changing what you believe/expect to be true about them. It’s all coming from you.

Anita wrote:

I want ruly believe that I will manifest a good version him, but Im so scary...I start reall like him , but I feel a fear when I know what my friend told me about him ..when she told me nothing so I know that I dont will attract this his negative version..but now Im afraid that my fear and thoughts about him attract it..how delete my fear?

i'm working on this but perhaps you just visualize your ideal version of him. idk how to live in the end until it feels natural but cynthia said you don't have to do that outside of visualizing. I think the feeling of it being real and natural will come with visualizing everyday. you can also do affirmations. when these scary thoughts come up, just try not to think of them. they should subside when you ignore them.  hope this helps.