fizzy wrote:

excalibar wrote:

Fizzy, Someone told me that since I’m only 16 I don’t know what real love is, it bothers me because I want to marry my sp in my 20’s I am starting to visualize that now. What do you think on that? Young love that is, should I disregard that? I think I will since I do want to marry him, and that’s really what I’m after. However I want us to drawbridge until than and start this year.

If you desire him now then go with that. Desires aren’t wrong. Sure, as you grow and mature more your desires might change, but that goes for anything.

Someone told me to make a better effort, the only thing I can do is visualize at night and try not to worry, but it seems like that isn’t enough... it’s a bit frustrating but also like ‘ok, what do you suggest I do than’. 😑

fizzy wrote:

excalibar wrote:

I know I’m the I my one who creates things in my reality but I still sometimes worry about manifesting my sp cheating on me... I ask myself why would I create a lie, and that I don’t, but I still worry. I’m scared of being hurt. I don’t really now how to get over this fear so I don’t manifest it... I’m not even sure where this specific fear came from... I would ask Cynthia but idk where she is, but how does one ‘assume a state’? Do they imagine something until it naturally becomes a state/belief/expectation? Idk even know what a state is in the terminology.. 😂 how do I change my sp into sometime who takes better care of himself, I know I manifested this but I really want it to stop ASAP before he really hurts himself fizzy, I now this is too much to ask but can you visualize him being not stupid, I visualize his sister telling me he takes really good care of himself... he already hurt his shoulder blade... I thought that maybe he might change if he gets a little hurt.. I don’t want him to get severely hurt or die... honestly the way he is right now, talking to him makes me really sad, I’m wondering sometimes if I wanna give up but I can’t..

All of your Neville questions have either already been asked on the Neville subreddit or you could ask them there. If you use the search function you will find a lot. I would prefer not to answer Neville questions because my attention isn’t on that anymore. His techniques are fine but I’m not a fan of the limitations that sometimes get placed on them. I just don’t think that way.

This is an unpopular view, but I don’t think fear creates anything. Haven’t you feared something in the past and it was never created? You can fear something all you want but unless you TRULY expect your fears to come true, they won’t. Emotions don’t create anything. I can say that over and over again and people still won’t get it. Because the LOA viewpoint places such emphasis on them. But there you have it.

Yes, if you visualize him to be different than he is and believe him to be different than he is now you will change him.

I think I just have to do something consistently and for me that’s visualizing until I believe it/feel like it’s mine etc. When I get stuck I don’t do anything, I have to push through that.