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I'm Scared!!!
So the only thing I am happy with is not knowing who this other girl is. But I do sometimes think about her from time to time, but not obsessively. I don't know if they are together now or not, although I never really think about that. But today I thought I saw him with another girl holding her hand and I started to cry. Even after I found out it is not them. I still cried in fear that I may have made it possible for them. Apart of me wishes he never mentioned her to me then it would be easier for me to manifest him. I need help.
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Re: I'm Scared!!!
I am going to be honest with you. You are in a low state right now, you need to know that this girl is not the problem, the problem is the way you think about her. Actually you don't need to think about her. Ignore her.
I'm going to give you a tip I used a lot. Say to your self how pretty you are, she's the one worried because your guy loves you!
PLEASE CORRECT ME IF I MAKE A GRAMMATICAL MISTAKE! I'm still learning;)
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Re: I'm Scared!!!
Well, I have no idea who she is and what she looks like. I don't even know if she knows about me. Sometimes I wonder if she is even real because he only mentioned her twice. But you are right about the problem being how I think of her. I have this problem where I compare myself to other girls and think I am not good enough. So in my mind she is better than me. But deep deep down I know I am worthy of being with him and suited for him. I am an obsessive thinker so I want to know how to break out of thinking about her as well as loving myself more.
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Re: I'm Scared!!!
So you MUST stop creating another girl. You don't even know if there is one and you are busy going ahead and creating her anyway?! Stop and try to come back to yourself. You are wonderful and worthy and deserving of enormous love. If this is the man you want, then rewrite an amazing love story (the one you have going right now is pretty awful!) and start focussing on that. Use other things to occupy your mind, like the 5 wonderful senses you have been gifted💜
If you imagine it in your mind..
Believe it in your heart..
Feel it in your soul..
You will hold it in your hand 💞
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I know self love is the key. If I loved myself enough, she wouldn't be a passing thought. I watched Veronica's video on self love and I wish to have more advice on it. Like steps to take to love yourself. I know my own worth, but it's hard sometimes to live in the moment.
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Thread Starter- Jenny
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Re: I'm Scared!!!
holistichealing wrote:
I know self love is the key. If I loved myself enough, she wouldn't be a passing thought. I watched Veronica's video on self love and I wish to have more advice on it. Like steps to take to love yourself. I know my own worth, but it's hard sometimes to live in the moment.
That's an awesome video. You should watch it daily and foment self love all the time. You are beautiful and you can have anything you like
just focus on your happiness
PLEASE CORRECT ME IF I MAKE A GRAMMATICAL MISTAKE! I'm still learning;)
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