shirley_xx wrote:

Hey everyone! I have been wanting to get back with my ex since we broke up two months ago and now I am feeling a bit flat in this journey as it's discouraging at times.
A little back story here.
I met my specific person in a very unexpected event 4 years ago, and by that time I was caught up with some other guys for a few months. Those guys were nice, sweet and all that... But something was off with them. The timing was never right and I never felt ready, so it turned out I never had started anything real with them.
But my specific person is different. When I first met him, I couldn't resist him. He's the person I have wished for. We started to be together in less than a month after we've first seen each other.
The chemistry was so great and we were truly happy.Yet, we encountered a lot of problems and arguments after 6 months and it drove him away for the first time. We got back together after a few days, things were great again for another year and we separated for a few days again. And things were great until I screwed up. 
I was not a grateful person and I made myself the first priority even when it came to our relationship. I tried to make it his fault but I actually know it's my ego and my selfishness and nothing more than that. I pushed him out of my life.
This time it's different. I can feel that he really wants to escape. After all, it's not a decision made upon one incident or overnight. It's something that has been expanding in the past few years and I am the one to be responsible.
So I let him go. He requested to have my birthday dinner with me and I agreed to that. We had some honest time with each other and he told me he is tired and doesn't want to be in a relationship right now, and after all these years, his feelings for me have changed. He was trying to live on his own and he said maybe some time later he'd find me the perfect match with him, or not at all. But until then he found I was the person who understands him best. I told him I still want us to work, but I know I can't force him this time as all I want is him being happy, and the both of us still have a lot to work on as an individual. I will wait for him figuring out all his problems. We hugged that night and I can feel the warmth.
A week later he encountered a problem and I offered to help. It turned out he didn't really need my help at all, but he came out and see me anyways. Yet he avoided having dinner with me. I can tell.
I was scared and I didn't want the night to end, so I had him stayed and talked at the train station with me.
This time he was cold. He kept saying he didn't want me to wait for him. He didn't miss me anymore. He did't have feelings for me anymore. He's trying to move on, to start a new life, and to flirt with other girls. I asked him is that possible for us to get back together in the future if I could change? He said maybe, but that's not what he wanted to happen. Text messages between us became cold. I contacted him every once in a while and he would reply in indifferent. But he still helps me when I need it. We'll each other one more time by the end of this week as he helps me with some paperwork stuff.
Many people keep telling me to move on as he is already. Sometimes I think about that too. But from the moment we parted, I have a strong feeling that he is my home. We will get back together, and no matter how hard it is, we belong together.
Not gonna lie, I tried a lot of stuff like fortune teller or tarot. Some told me that he's not gonna come back for another half year, and some told me that I should be patient and he will come back. I am lost and don't know what to do.
Then I discovered law of attraction and I think I should give it a try. But I really don't know where to start and what to do. Can anyone recommend any guided meditations to help? Also should we still be in contact? Should I manifest texts from him? Should I send him love and care?

 

I'm going to recomnend to you what I recommend to everybody. Study Neville Goddard's teachings on conscious creation and start applying them to everything, not just this situation. These teachings are all you need to know. They're very simple, effective, and right to the point. He's the best, forget the rest.

Your lengthy story doesn't matter. The solution is always the same - to live in the end of the wish fulfilled. Study Neville and you'll see what that means.

It's probably better not to contact him for awhile. Don't obsess about this or stalk him on social media or any of that sort of thing whilst you're working on changing this situation by the use of your imagination. I'm sure it isn't just a text you want, so focus on the end result that you want, which is a happy relationship with him. Again, Neville will explain this. Here is his short version of The Secret of Imagining to get you started.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?t=4s&v=YccI-t1yojk

shirley_xx wrote:

Cynthia wrote:

shirley_xx wrote:

Hey everyone! I have been wanting to get back with my ex since we broke up two months ago and now I am feeling a bit flat in this journey as it's discouraging at times.
A little back story here.
I met my specific person in a very unexpected event 4 years ago, and by that time I was caught up with some other guys for a few months. Those guys were nice, sweet and all that... But something was off with them. The timing was never right and I never felt ready, so it turned out I never had started anything real with them.
But my specific person is different. When I first met him, I couldn't resist him. He's the person I have wished for. We started to be together in less than a month after we've first seen each other.
The chemistry was so great and we were truly happy.Yet, we encountered a lot of problems and arguments after 6 months and it drove him away for the first time. We got back together after a few days, things were great again for another year and we separated for a few days again. And things were great until I screwed up. 
I was not a grateful person and I made myself the first priority even when it came to our relationship. I tried to make it his fault but I actually know it's my ego and my selfishness and nothing more than that. I pushed him out of my life.
This time it's different. I can feel that he really wants to escape. After all, it's not a decision made upon one incident or overnight. It's something that has been expanding in the past few years and I am the one to be responsible.
So I let him go. He requested to have my birthday dinner with me and I agreed to that. We had some honest time with each other and he told me he is tired and doesn't want to be in a relationship right now, and after all these years, his feelings for me have changed. He was trying to live on his own and he said maybe some time later he'd find me the perfect match with him, or not at all. But until then he found I was the person who understands him best. I told him I still want us to work, but I know I can't force him this time as all I want is him being happy, and the both of us still have a lot to work on as an individual. I will wait for him figuring out all his problems. We hugged that night and I can feel the warmth.
A week later he encountered a problem and I offered to help. It turned out he didn't really need my help at all, but he came out and see me anyways. Yet he avoided having dinner with me. I can tell.
I was scared and I didn't want the night to end, so I had him stayed and talked at the train station with me.
This time he was cold. He kept saying he didn't want me to wait for him. He didn't miss me anymore. He did't have feelings for me anymore. He's trying to move on, to start a new life, and to flirt with other girls. I asked him is that possible for us to get back together in the future if I could change? He said maybe, but that's not what he wanted to happen. Text messages between us became cold. I contacted him every once in a while and he would reply in indifferent. But he still helps me when I need it. We'll each other one more time by the end of this week as he helps me with some paperwork stuff.
Many people keep telling me to move on as he is already. Sometimes I think about that too. But from the moment we parted, I have a strong feeling that he is my home. We will get back together, and no matter how hard it is, we belong together.
Not gonna lie, I tried a lot of stuff like fortune teller or tarot. Some told me that he's not gonna come back for another half year, and some told me that I should be patient and he will come back. I am lost and don't know what to do.
Then I discovered law of attraction and I think I should give it a try. But I really don't know where to start and what to do. Can anyone recommend any guided meditations to help? Also should we still be in contact? Should I manifest texts from him? Should I send him love and care?

 

I'm going to recomnend to you what I recommend to everybody. Study Neville Goddard's teachings on conscious creation and start applying them to everything, not just this situation. These teachings are all you need to know. They're very simple, effective, and right to the point. He's the best, forget the rest.

Your lengthy story doesn't matter. The solution is always the same - to live in the end of the wish fulfilled. Study Neville and you'll see what that means.

It's probably better not to contact him for awhile. Don't obsess about this or stalk him on social media or any of that sort of thing whilst you're working on changing this situation by the use of your imagination. I'm sure it isn't just a text you want, so focus on the end result that you want, which is a happy relationship with him. Again, Neville will explain this. Here is his short version of The Secret of Imagining to get you started.

Thanks for your recommendation! Is there any personal success story you could share?

 
Okay. Selling my unwanted piano within a week is a good one to look at, but since your interest is in a relationship, long before I ever heard of Neville, I manifested a long marriage with my now former husband by simply imagining that we were married to each other. It was long distance because I had left London where he had remained, and we had very little contact during the time I was away, which was for over a year, I can't remember exactly, a few months longer than a year at the most. When I returned, I think he asked me to marry him within about 5 or 6 weeks, I know it was less than 2 months, and we got married a few months later. I didn't worry about anything or create any potential obstacles in my mind during the time we were apart (or ever). However, as I've stated before here, I left out the critically important details I wanted in a relationship and just left that to chance, mistakenly thinking that those things would fall into place later, so don't make that mistake. I got the marriage, but not the relationship I really wanted.

Last edited by Cynthia (10/13/2018 5:02 pm)

consciouscreation88 wrote:

shirley_xx wrote:

Hey everyone! I have been wanting to get back with my ex since we broke up two months ago and now I am feeling a bit flat in this journey as it's discouraging at times.
A little back story here.
I met my specific person in a very unexpected event 4 years ago, and by that time I was caught up with some other guys for a few months. Those guys were nice, sweet and all that... But something was off with them. The timing was never right and I never felt ready, so it turned out I never had started anything real with them.
But my specific person is different. When I first met him, I couldn't resist him. He's the person I have wished for. We started to be together in less than a month after we've first seen each other.
The chemistry was so great and we were truly happy.Yet, we encountered a lot of problems and arguments after 6 months and it drove him away for the first time. We got back together after a few days, things were great again for another year and we separated for a few days again. And things were great until I screwed up. 
I was not a grateful person and I made myself the first priority even when it came to our relationship. I tried to make it his fault but I actually know it's my ego and my selfishness and nothing more than that. I pushed him out of my life.
This time it's different. I can feel that he really wants to escape. After all, it's not a decision made upon one incident or overnight. It's something that has been expanding in the past few years and I am the one to be responsible.
So I let him go. He requested to have my birthday dinner with me and I agreed to that. We had some honest time with each other and he told me he is tired and doesn't want to be in a relationship right now, and after all these years, his feelings for me have changed. He was trying to live on his own and he said maybe some time later he'd find me the perfect match with him, or not at all. But until then he found I was the person who understands him best. I told him I still want us to work, but I know I can't force him this time as all I want is him being happy, and the both of us still have a lot to work on as an individual. I will wait for him figuring out all his problems. We hugged that night and I can feel the warmth.
A week later he encountered a problem and I offered to help. It turned out he didn't really need my help at all, but he came out and see me anyways. Yet he avoided having dinner with me. I can tell.
I was scared and I didn't want the night to end, so I had him stayed and talked at the train station with me.
This time he was cold. He kept saying he didn't want me to wait for him. He didn't miss me anymore. He did't have feelings for me anymore. He's trying to move on, to start a new life, and to flirt with other girls. I asked him is that possible for us to get back together in the future if I could change? He said maybe, but that's not what he wanted to happen. Text messages between us became cold. I contacted him every once in a while and he would reply in indifferent. But he still helps me when I need it. We'll each other one more time by the end of this week as he helps me with some paperwork stuff.
Many people keep telling me to move on as he is already. Sometimes I think about that too. But from the moment we parted, I have a strong feeling that he is my home. We will get back together, and no matter how hard it is, we belong together.
Not gonna lie, I tried a lot of stuff like fortune teller or tarot. Some told me that he's not gonna come back for another half year, and some told me that I should be patient and he will come back. I am lost and don't know what to do.
Then I discovered law of attraction and I think I should give it a try. But I really don't know where to start and what to do. Can anyone recommend any guided meditations to help? Also should we still be in contact? Should I manifest texts from him? Should I send him love and care?

Hi, Shirley!

When my ex broke up with me, I really felt frustrated. Out of boredom, I searched for ways online on how to get him back and I am so happy I stumbled upon the law of attraction. I was mindblown because of the fact that you can actually manifest your ex back as long as you religiously follow its principles. I tried this course and I learned soooo many effective techniques and facts. I learned how to visualize properly, how to create my own affirmations, and I learned some tricks in order to manifest faster. If you are interested in trying, you can use the code VRDEC1579 and thank me later ;)

I sincerely hope you will get your ex back soon. Happy manifesting!
 

Ignore this, it's a money making scheme - try Neville instead. It costs zero.

consciouscreation88 wrote:

shirley_xx wrote:

Hey everyone! I have been wanting to get back with my ex since we broke up two months ago and now I am feeling a bit flat in this journey as it's discouraging at times.
A little back story here.
I met my specific person in a very unexpected event 4 years ago, and by that time I was caught up with some other guys for a few months. Those guys were nice, sweet and all that... But something was off with them. The timing was never right and I never felt ready, so it turned out I never had started anything real with them.
But my specific person is different. When I first met him, I couldn't resist him. He's the person I have wished for. We started to be together in less than a month after we've first seen each other.
The chemistry was so great and we were truly happy.Yet, we encountered a lot of problems and arguments after 6 months and it drove him away for the first time. We got back together after a few days, things were great again for another year and we separated for a few days again. And things were great until I screwed up. 
I was not a grateful person and I made myself the first priority even when it came to our relationship. I tried to make it his fault but I actually know it's my ego and my selfishness and nothing more than that. I pushed him out of my life.
This time it's different. I can feel that he really wants to escape. After all, it's not a decision made upon one incident or overnight. It's something that has been expanding in the past few years and I am the one to be responsible.
So I let him go. He requested to have my birthday dinner with me and I agreed to that. We had some honest time with each other and he told me he is tired and doesn't want to be in a relationship right now, and after all these years, his feelings for me have changed. He was trying to live on his own and he said maybe some time later he'd find me the perfect match with him, or not at all. But until then he found I was the person who understands him best. I told him I still want us to work, but I know I can't force him this time as all I want is him being happy, and the both of us still have a lot to work on as an individual. I will wait for him figuring out all his problems. We hugged that night and I can feel the warmth.
A week later he encountered a problem and I offered to help. It turned out he didn't really need my help at all, but he came out and see me anyways. Yet he avoided having dinner with me. I can tell.
I was scared and I didn't want the night to end, so I had him stayed and talked at the train station with me.
This time he was cold. He kept saying he didn't want me to wait for him. He didn't miss me anymore. He did't have feelings for me anymore. He's trying to move on, to start a new life, and to flirt with other girls. I asked him is that possible for us to get back together in the future if I could change? He said maybe, but that's not what he wanted to happen. Text messages between us became cold. I contacted him every once in a while and he would reply in indifferent. But he still helps me when I need it. We'll each other one more time by the end of this week as he helps me with some paperwork stuff.
Many people keep telling me to move on as he is already. Sometimes I think about that too. But from the moment we parted, I have a strong feeling that he is my home. We will get back together, and no matter how hard it is, we belong together.
Not gonna lie, I tried a lot of stuff like fortune teller or tarot. Some told me that he's not gonna come back for another half year, and some told me that I should be patient and he will come back. I am lost and don't know what to do.
Then I discovered law of attraction and I think I should give it a try. But I really don't know where to start and what to do. Can anyone recommend any guided meditations to help? Also should we still be in contact? Should I manifest texts from him? Should I send him love and care?

Hi, Shirley!

When my ex broke up with me, I really felt frustrated. Out of boredom, I searched for ways online on how to get him back and I am so happy I stumbled upon the law of attraction. I was mindblown because of the fact that you can actually manifest your ex back as long as you religiously follow its principles. I tried this course and I learned soooo many effective techniques and facts. I learned how to visualize properly, how to create my own affirmations, and I learned some tricks in order to manifest faster. If you are interested in trying, you can use the code VRDEC1579 and thank me later ;)

I sincerely hope you will get your ex back soon. Happy manifesting!
 

This is a scam. The person recommending this 'course' is the person who wrote it and is trying to sell it for a premium price. By her own admission, she was unable to manifest any of her 'exes' back, yet she's written a 'course' on how to do it just to try to make money.. She keeps popping up here trying to flog this at any and every opportunity. Don't be conned. Study Neville's teachings instead. They are free, simple, and effective and all you need to know. There are few things that make me more angry than the vultures of this world preying on other people who are vulnerable and feeling helpless, hopeless, and desperate anyway, and to make money off of people in that state, or try to, is disgraceful.