I've read through all of this, and I am a bit confused. You appeared to be replying to other people's comments, but there was only one and that didn't say anything relevant to what you seemed to be replying to.

One thing that really stands out to me, and I think it's very common, human nature, is to ascribe a meaning to somebody else's actions or lack thereof or to something they've said or not said. Since we create our own realities, once you start assuming things, untrue or not, you've planted the seeds of those things becoming a fact if every time you think about the situation you are ascribing that same meaning to it, the law of assumption in action.

I agree in a physical world sense of wanting to have an answer from somebody as to why they have appeared to have cut you off, as you've defined it for yourself. You seem to have taken these things as rejections. That might not have been their original intention at all, but then from what you've said, it sounds as though you've done what could have been perceived as being pushy and even confrontational by the things you've written to these people wanting answers, innocuous as your actual words might have seemed.

There seems to be a pattern here, including your recent post about that 'pain in the backside.'

Since it is pointless to try to manipulate outward conditions directly, and that comes from within, I think perhaps a better option would have been to not take these behaviours by other people as rejections or snubs and change your perceptions of them with regard to yourself, and if you really cared so much about their friendship or keeping in touch, create those things in your imagination and not do anything overtly. Now that you seem to feel that you've been rejected, you come across as almost hostile or defensive. 'Well, if they don't want anything to do with me, they certainly won't be hearing from me again,' but all of this started with a thought in your mind.

Last edited by Cynthia (11/08/2018 8:32 am)

Noseying around has informed me that he has bought a house with his girlfriend!