PrettyFlamingo wrote:

Anita wrote:

How do reverse technique on sent message? Is it possible shift in parallel reality, where person forget on a message  I sent him.?

What is your desired outcome? Live in the end of that, there's a wealth of discussion on this which you got replies to earlier this week.

 
Yes, but this appears to be yet another situation where you can lead a horse to water but you can't make her, in this case, drink. It never ceases to amaze me how many desperate people ask for help, are given excellent advice, and then proceed to ignore it and go off on yet another tangent, end up failing, and then ultimately go off in a huff. It does get aggravating sometimes.

PrettyFlamingo wrote:

Anita wrote:

How do reverse technique on sent message? Is it possible shift in parallel reality, where person forget on a message  I sent him.?

What is your desired outcome? Live in the end of that, there's a wealth of discussion on this which you got replies to earlier this week.

I dont sent message my ex who I want back, but his friend..and I dont want his friend think something negative about me..

Anita wrote:

and I hate this sarcastic answers... I never asked about reserve technique before. So I ask now. And everybody tell I have to just listen neville or read his books. but in my country his books isn't translate and his words are hard understand. So I wanted easier answers...yes people ask still the same thing, because we were learned opossite...and all this things are hard believe. and ii is hard believe that I just have to live that nothing bad doesnt happen and it will remove. Because aometimes people remember words and situations many years even thought we already forget about it..

Hi Anita, i understand that you are still new to the concept of LOA and therefore it is hard for you to believe. But LOA is not some magic trick that will help you to get your specific person back in a short period of time. The key to LOA is to have faith and be patient. Just like we have faith in God, you must have faith that your person will be back. But i understand this is the most difficult part to implement - to have trust and faith when the current reality is something different. I dont know your story, may be you have broken up recently and you want your person back as soon as possible but trust me things which happen to us faster, we also lose them faster as well. But things that we achieve, by practicing patience, lasts longer and gives us more contentment and satisfaction because we have achieved that thing after a long period of time and after fighting a long battle.
In your case, right now, you are lacking patience and you want immediate result, if this is what you want then sorry LOA is not your thing then. As Cynthia said, she has waited for a long year,imagining she is already married, with minimal contact from her specific person. I know this sounds so hard but yes she did it because she had complete faith in it. So if you think that you really want your specific person, if you really think he is the love of your life then just keep faith and believe that he is already with you. It is really diffucult to practice because i am also trying to do the same and sometimes i feel so hopeless but then I say these affirmations in my mind like my boyfriend is the love of my life, he loves me, he misses me, he thinks about me, we are so happy being together etc etc and this again helps bringing me back to positive state.
I would like to say that when we get something in our life easily we will not value its importance but when we get something after a long wait we would truly appreciate its value.So donot think that this time you are not being with your specific person is a bad phase but instead it is a learning phase in your life. And when this learning phase is over and you are reunited with your specific person, you would be so so happy and contented.Just think about that happiness that is going to happen in the future and try to be happy in your present.I am also new to LoA so i cannot give you many advices but i am just telling you from my experience.i hope it helps

Last edited by Sohini (10/27/2018 7:17 am)

Cynthia wrote:

Neville's teachings in a nutshell:

Imagination creates reality. (Think about it. There is nothing in existence that wasn't first imagined.)

Imaginal acts, when persisted in over time, harden into facts. (Put another way, anything you imagine for a long enough time, will become a reality.)

Live in the end of the wish fulfilled. (This means to feel that you already have your desire right now and to think from the standpoint of having your desire already as an accomplished fact, not as something you hope to have at some future time, and to make it as real in your imagination as possible.)

The more natural having your desire feels to you, the sooner it will become a reality in the outside world.

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Look, people, this isn't hard. There is no opponent to having your desire except yourself. You are the only one who can stand in your way by failing to do what Neville proved to be true in his own experience time and again and taught other people to do.

Hi Cynthia! Your story of manifesting your marriage has been such an inspiration for me. I think it really requires lot of faith to do what you have done and that too for an year. I must say I am trying my best to live from the end but sometimes i feel his absence in my life and i miss him. But i believe if you could have done that then i can also do that. I know i am the only one who is blocking my manifestation to turn into reality but i will soon overcome it. I just have a question for you : while you were living in the end result and sometimes you would realise that the current reality is very different how did you cope with it? In my case, i again start visualising about us getting married and being happy with each other, and i also say some positive affirmations in my mind.