Veronica's Law of Attraction Forum » I need help

fizzy · 9/08/2018 6:45 pm

excalibar wrote:
fizzy wrote:
oceanitrogen wrote:

Oh yes yes, I need to know this also. And if you guys don't mind me adding a few questions:
3. Can you make the person be as open and as in love and as starstruck by you and they were before? Even more than before?
4. How do I go on about my day, every day? Do I vizualise him being with me every time I remember about him? Or do I only visualize at night? And can I script freely, creating nice situations? Also can I state that he's this and that and he's treating me this and that way?
5. What are some things I can do to make the fear vanish and believe a hundred percent we're together?
3. Yes and yes.
4. When you think of him, think from the perspective of already being in a relationship with him. You can visualize any time you like, but even doing it only at night is sufficient. Yes, you can script freely. Yes, you can state those things. Anything that keeps you in the feeling of already having him.
5. Remember that reality is your own personal dream, nobody can create in it but you. If you dream that he is your boyfriend, it must manifest. Also, read Neville. Lol.
FIZZY:
When you say to think from having it I tend to be like "he loves me the most" "he only wants me" etc. Am I doing this correctly because it feels like affirmations and not really thinking from it.

It’s not something you force yourself to do. If you have been visualizing and really feeling the reality, you begin to naturally feel that it is done. And you no longer have to think of your old reality or how to get your desire because it’s yours.

fizzy · 9/08/2018 6:47 pm

excalibar wrote:
excalibar wrote:
fizzy wrote:

3. Yes and yes.
4. When you think of him, think from the perspective of already being in a relationship with him. You can visualize any time you like, but even doing it only at night is sufficient. Yes, you can script freely. Yes, you can state those things. Anything that keeps you in the feeling of already having him.
5. Remember that reality is your own personal dream, nobody can create in it but you. If you dream that he is your boyfriend, it must manifest. Also, read Neville. Lol.
I notice that when I do affirmations and intentions for example " RR loves me the most" I usually put a truly or something of that nature because I fear that it won't be natural from his end, like I'm forcing him to do something and our love will be fake.. what should I do about those words I use like ex: truly, naturally, honestly etc because I want to be precise and I want him to naturally fall for me as well. What should I do FIZZY?
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If you are asking this question, then you don’t understand how reality works. It’s not possible to force someone or manipulate someone ever. It’s not possible because other people are only projections. Whatever you believe of them is true. True on their part and true on yours.

Aquilina · 9/08/2018 7:06 pm

fizzy wrote:
excalibar wrote:
excalibar wrote:

I notice that when I do affirmations and intentions for example " RR loves me the most" I usually put a truly or something of that nature because I fear that it won't be natural from his end, like I'm forcing him to do something and our love will be fake.. what should I do about those words I use like ex: truly, naturally, honestly etc because I want to be precise and I want him to naturally fall for me as well. What should I do FIZZY?
..
If you are asking this question, then you don’t understand how reality works. It’s not possible to force someone or manipulate someone ever. It’s not possible because other people are only projections. Whatever you believe of them is true. True on their part and true on yours.

Since getting into Neville's stuff, I am realizing this more and more. I just posted a new thread about this because I am feeling weird about the free will stuff even though it doesn't exist. Please if you get a chance to look at it it would be great...it might help us all...you seem like you really understand the un-realness of things. I want to know how reality works! I will listen to and read more Neville stuff.

excalibar · 9/08/2018 7:07 pm

fizzy wrote:
excalibar wrote:
fizzy wrote:

3. Yes and yes.
4. When you think of him, think from the perspective of already being in a relationship with him. You can visualize any time you like, but even doing it only at night is sufficient. Yes, you can script freely. Yes, you can state those things. Anything that keeps you in the feeling of already having him.
5. Remember that reality is your own personal dream, nobody can create in it but you. If you dream that he is your boyfriend, it must manifest. Also, read Neville. Lol.
FIZZY:
When you say to think from having it I tend to be like "he loves me the most" "he only wants me" etc. Am I doing this correctly because it feels like affirmations and not really thinking from it.
It’s not something you force yourself to do. If you have been visualizing and really feeling the reality, you begin to naturally feel that it is done. And you no longer have to think of your old reality or how to get your desire because it’s yours.

I always pretend he's with me and 9 times out of 10 I feel happy and loving. Is this the effect that is supposed be be achieved from this? Also I don't listen to people who say anything negative about us being together.

excalibar · 9/08/2018 7:09 pm

fizzy wrote:
excalibar wrote:
excalibar wrote:

I notice that when I do affirmations and intentions for example " RR loves me the most" I usually put a truly or something of that nature because I fear that it won't be natural from his end, like I'm forcing him to do something and our love will be fake.. what should I do about those words I use like ex: truly, naturally, honestly etc because I want to be precise and I want him to naturally fall for me as well. What should I do FIZZY?
..
If you are asking this question, then you don’t understand how reality works. It’s not possible to force someone or manipulate someone ever. It’s not possible because other people are only projections. Whatever you believe of them is true. True on their part and true on yours.

So instead of believing that our realities are gonna clash I should see them blending together. I could make him see me as a treasure from his reality/point of view?

Aquilina · 9/08/2018 7:28 pm

Yes I believe so. Also I noticed the other day something that might help people in general...when Veronica says about being in the present moment ie. not resisting or feeling lack of the end result...well, the other day, I met with a friend I hadn't seen for a year. I had been feeling some tension around the situation with my SP. It was in the back of the mind throughout a lot of the time I spent with my friend, then eventually I got to the point of appreciating that moment, appreciating this person I was spending time with. I felt this release of tension as I came into the present moment. Later that day, my SP was more talkative than he had been recently and the situation just felt different somehow.

Aquilina · 9/08/2018 8:11 pm

By the way...just watched a video of Veronica's about free will that I hadn't seen before...she said that if you desire someone then on some level they must desire you otherwise you wouldn't desire them then it got me thinking...where does it all start? Like if someone stopped desiring someone and the other mirrored it, who started it if the one mirroring it was mirroring it? xD

oceanitrogen · 9/08/2018 8:11 pm

Aquilina wrote:
excalibar wrote:
Aquilina wrote:

Well said! And yes I don't know whether you saw the posts before but someone recommended you, about the topic of self love, as I was looking for ideas. I checked some of your posts and saw you mentioned the mirror technique so I started doing that, which turned out to be a great way of communicating with the subconscious. So I do that. And every time I feel the negative voice come up, I stop what I'm doing, breathe, close my eyes and talk to it to resolve the conflict. Basically, I am reprogramming my self concept. I logically know I am a great being. Emotionally I have spent many years not believing it, and believing I was something else, something wrong, something people wouldn't like. It was such a contradiction to the person that I KNEW consciously that I am, that I even gave it its own name haha, as it helped to remind me that it's not who I am. FINALLY I've managed to get to the very core of where all of this came from, and so I am able to get on with the reprogramming, because I know that these things that I am not, are not me. I was always worried I would be "discovered" to be this negative person that I emotionally had been taught that I was, so I thought that after knowing me for a while, people would think I was that person, instead of the great person that I logically know I am. But now I have gained understanding, I am able to teach that part of myself, that it is not these negative things, and this is where the mirror technique helps.

I have been doing more practical things like making more effort with how I look even if I'm not going anywhere special, just because it feels good to do it. But yeah, I was wondering what else can be done? I figure that visualizing myself as my ideal would be the most powerful thing. But yes, someone said you were experienced on this topic so if you think of anything that would be greatly appreciated :D

I'm visualizing my ideal self to change my appearance! 😊
That's great, years ago I did the same using self hypnosis to lose weight and it worked.

Do you guys believe we can change anything on our body? I want to be more pale (like I was when I was a child) and naturally blonde. I just don't know if it's possible

Aquilina · 9/08/2018 8:12 pm

oceanitrogen wrote:
Aquilina wrote:
excalibar wrote:
I'm visualizing my ideal self to change my appearance! 😊
That's great, years ago I did the same using self hypnosis to lose weight and it worked.
Do you guys believe we can change anything on our body? I want to be more pale (like I was when I was a child) and naturally blonde. I just don't know if it's possible

Yes, I don't believe ageing is something that has to happen either. There is a self-hypnosis site that has recordings for changing eye colour, changing hair growth etc, reversing grey hair. Anything is possible. I have read studies about breast enlargement using hypnosis as I wanted to do that once and it might have worked a bit when I was a teenager because I am in proportion now or maybe it was a coincidence and I was just still developing. I didn't do it to the extent I planned but I don't care about that now, but will probably do it one day just for the sake of it xD I think people can regrow limbs.

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Aquilina · 9/08/2018 8:22 pm

Aquilina wrote:
By the way...just watched a video of Veronica's about free will that I hadn't seen before...she said that if you desire someone then on some level they must desire you otherwise you wouldn't desire them then it got me thinking...where does it all start? Like if someone stopped desiring someone and the other mirrored it, who started it if the one mirroring it was mirroring it? xD

Hmmm...could it be that it just depends on the overall energy in the universe that's focused on it? ie. regardless of where it began, it's in a constant state of flux and as long as one person wants it then the other will to the extent that is allowed by the first person's energy and beliefs?

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