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I wrote this huge paragraph talking about my story but I posted it on the wrong place because I'm new here. So I decided to make it short this time.
Yes, I am desperate. I know I shouldn't be, I already know I need to work on that, I just don't know how to. I miss him all the time and not being with him and the fact that I broke up with him and he still didn't come after me is hurting me really bad. He has always been amazing to me and I was horrible to him and then he started getting tired and started doing less for me until the point where he didn't want come and see me sometimes but would still tell me he loved me more than everything. I broke up with him because I knew I couldn't do it anymore like that, but he didn't come after me. At first he did but then he just gave up and we haven't talked for two weeks. That's why I'm desperate. It hurts that he's not talking to me, that he changed his status on facebook to single. It hurts okay? I need real advice on what to do, because I can't even buy Veronica's ebook right now, only next month. I need someone to truly help me and tell me what to do because I've watched all of veronica's videos and they confuse me a bit because I always forget everything when I'm done with the video (my memory is really bad). So please, help me. I need to know how to attract him back but attract him back with the feelings he had for me before he got tired of the relationship and of my horrible behaviour. Please help me
Last edited by oceanitrogen (9/04/2018 10:42 am)
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It is NOT that nobody cares. That's not a fair comment. You're a first time poster and you got about four replies. Please remember that people have jobs, families and so on and don't spend all their lives on this forum. You'll need a bit of patience and also why don't you have a look around the different sections to get a feel for the board in the meantime?
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Where is your original post? Have you deleted it? There was some good advice there.
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Sometimes people donβt like focusing on themselves
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Selfloveiskey wrote:
Sometimes people donβt like focusing on themselves
I just found out how to answer someone!!! Yaaaaay!!! But I don't get what you said, what do you mean?
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PrettyFlamingo wrote:
It is NOT that nobody cares. That's not a fair comment. You're a first time poster and you got about four replies. Please remember that people have jobs, families and so on and don't spend all their lives on this forum. You'll need a bit of patience and also why don't you have a look around the different sections to get a feel for the board in the meantime?
I'm so sorry, I swear I didn't mean it like that. I meant it in more of a nobody cares and shouldn't care because I'm a stranger. I'm really sorry. I'll edit that part out because I truly didn't mean it like that
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PrettyFlamingo wrote:
Where is your original post? Have you deleted it? There was some good advice there.
I deleted because someone said I shouldn't have posted it there! But all the advices where things I know I have to do, but I don't know how to, you know?
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PrettyFlamingo wrote:
Where is your original post? Have you deleted it? There was some good advice there.
And also, what I'm having the hardest time with is the fact that he hasn't come after me yet. And he changed the status on facebook and the profile picture of WhatsApp. He has always loved me so much and now everyone is saying that he doesn't and that he moved on but he always said he would never want to live without me. That and the fear of never being with him again are stopping me from being positive.
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I think he might be a feeling hurt and rejected after being broken up with, which could be why he hasn't chased you. The situation is salvageable but you need to forgive yourself and then focus on the end result. Which in this case is a happy and loving relationship with the person.Β
I recommend focusing on yourself for a little while, then you can set the intention to manifest the person.Β
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You could watch Veronica's videos again and write down some notes to help you remember.