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Hi! My ex and I broke up in August 4, and we kept in touch, bec he wanted to keep talking. But before I found this forum and the other The Secret forum, I read about the 21-30 days no contact period, so I insisted to my ex that we shouldn't communicate, for me to move on. Is it really important to not have contact? I read that it is, so the bad feelings and negative experiences that caused the break up will no longer be associated with me.Β
What are your thoughts? Although I am trying to visualize and manifest that he would initiate contact, and tell me that he realized that he wants to work things out. I am also new to this, so help from you wonderful people would be greatly appreciated. Because there are times, esp when I have just woken up, and I feel bad bec my ex and I are broken up. That I no longer wake up to messages from him. What can I do about that?
I just started the 25-day challenge today, as I have only learned about it last night.
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Hello there! I've moved this thread to a better location so it can be seen by other users.Β
The whole no contact thing isn't something you have to follow in order to manifest. It's a suggestion for people who constantly contact their ex/specific person.Β
To manifest contact, you just picture open and free communication. You can even send yourself a pretend text and pretend it's from the person you desire. The key is to picture the end goal.Β
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hi, how long will this no contact period takes? I'm hiding all his accounts, including instagram's stories too
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erin22 wrote:
hi, how long will this no contact period takes? I'm hiding all his accounts, including instagram's stories too
And what else are you doing whilst in "no contact"?