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So , again when I am trying to be positive something negetive appeared and just killed me !! my guy again was hanging out with his **** best friend .. he just put a snapstory .. in which he was with that gal and she was looking suppa hot .. this created a lot more insecurity in me !!
There was a what's app group of are mutual friends in which we all were planning something and as I started replying his reply became one word ... infact now he just read and left !!
he is making me feel so unwanted !! last night I got a night mare he is dating his best friend and today he is roaming with that gal .. she is the major reason which is keeping him diverted .. I am hating it , I am not able to focus anywhere .. I tried to meditate by playing OSHO as that's what gives me mind me .. but even hearing that I was all busy crying idk why is this things turning out so bad with me
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Ah Jui. You are not listening to any advice you are been given.
Please breath and control yourself , I know its not easy but you have got to listen and practice what Veronica and some of the brilliant people on this forum have been coaching you to do.
My advice from what iv learnt and am still learning Is this,
1. Cut all contact and stop obsessing about this other girl.
2. Start again and read carefully the advice you have been given here and by Veronica.
3.( this sounds harsh) stop feeling sorry for yourself and start to love YOU again!!
4. Learn to be positive and don't be so negetitive.
5. If you really love him and want him and you really believe that you are connected to him, then let go of all your jealousey and anger.
6 realize that you are actually sabotaging your desire at the moment because you are telling the universe that your needy and sad and jealous.
7realize that myself and others are all here for you but u have got to stop being so negetive sweetheart.
8. Finally know that if you can clear your troubled mind and focus on positive outcome he will be yours .
Remember LOA IS AN ACTUALLY LAW JUST LIKE GRAVITY.. it can be the most amazing gift if you understand it or it can be a curse if u fail to grasp it.
Again we are all here for you
Regards,
Alan
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Sweetie we are here for you I have been deep in the abyss wanting to die with all my heart I know and feel the pain I found that the agony of seeing things on social media ate me alive and set me back further and further all this torment is setting you back Please hang on to what you want and push away what you DONT want If you have someone who understands you and will comfort you today is the day to spend with them If not you need to comfort yourself getting your vibration back up and driving away all that crap is what you need to work on Perhaps listen to all of Veronica's video's today as long as you need to Wayne Dyer has a lovely meditation on youtube also Please let me know what you need I will try to help
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Alan brilliant words
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barbidoll wrote:
Alan brilliant words
Thanks barbiedoll. I think we all can relate to the absolute horrible feeling Jui is feeling but its complete self sabotage and iv wasted months feeling like that and I certainly don't want to see someone else make the same mistake.
I'm actuly having great fun with my visualisations and RS.
I'm doing up my focus wheel tonight plus I must get my hands of the Lanie method that everyone here is on about.
Is all good
I'm in a much better place now thanks to LOA , Veronica and of course you beautiful people .
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Allgood wrote:
Ah Jui. You are not listening to any advice you are been given.
Please breath and control yourself , I know its not easy but you have got to listen and practice what Veronica and some of the brilliant people on this forum have been coaching you to do.
My advice from what iv learnt and am still learning Is this,
1. Cut all contact and stop obsessing about this other girl.
2. Start again and read carefully the advice you have been given here and by Veronica.
3.( this sounds harsh) stop feeling sorry for yourself and start to love YOU again!!
4. Learn to be positive and don't be so negetitive.
5. If you really love him and want him and you really believe that you are connected to him, then let go of all your jealousey and anger.
6 realize that you are actually sabotaging your desire at the moment because you are telling the universe that your needy and sad and jealous.
7realize that myself and others are all here for you but u have got to stop being so negetive sweetheart.
8. Finally know that if you can clear your troubled mind and focus on positive outcome he will be yours .
Remember LOA IS AN ACTUALLY LAW JUST LIKE GRAVITY.. it can be the most amazing gift if you understand it or it can be a curse if u fail to grasp it.
Again we are all here for you
Regards,
Alan
Great post
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I want to learn about the Lanie method as well I believe its in a book I will research the forum after work today to see what I can find Yes I wasted years literally sabotaging myself I came accross LOA very recently and now I am finally learning so I know success is around the corner I too bless Veronica and all of you every day for being there with and for me through this Jui sweetheart turn off the social media all that pain is holding you back surround yourself with good thoughts and feelings dont be like me suffering in agony for years you have the knowlege and support here something I just discovered last month we are all here for each other
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I am working as you people have advice @ all good ..
it's like I am not able to maintain positive vibes always .. for eg today I was happy but then the snap story appeared and in no minute I turned out to b totally negative .. idk how but just in few seconds my good mood .. good thoughts everything vanishes in a second .. I do listens to vedios and I was very firm on being on that 25days challenge but sometime idk why I turn out to be so low I just go in depression and sometime I m all egar and suppa confident of he coming
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Hi jui, I think I attracted this post for me to see 1 and a half hour ago, the exact same situation happened to me. I swear. No lies. It hit right to my face. I was happy for these days, he stopped posting he and that girl a few days ago and I started to believe that he might feels that he loves me so he stopped seeing other girls. But it hit right to my face, when I saw the snap just now. But please, don't get me wrong, I'm not here to tell you how negative I am or giving you more negative energy, I just wanted to tell you that, we're fighting for the same thing, we're warriors, these are illusions. We can manifest our desire , these were just the past thought you had. You're creating a new ones now
well, it took me 30 minutes to get myself back to positive state. It's really hard. Tell yourself you accept what is happening now but this aren't what you want. Take a DEEEP breath and be HAPPY! BECAUSE!! You will get what you want soon! We're in this together Jui! Hugs! I hope I can see you in person right now and hug you instead. We can do this! You're not alone, we'll have them back in our arms very very soon!
Lots of love! XOXO ♡
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your moods are swinging from high to low because you are still fragile you just like almost everyone on this forum wants love either back or new but we are all seeking love and that is our primary objective so naturally when something we see as negative is in front of us we dive emotionally and bring back the flood of negativity no one can maintain positive vibrations constantly it takes a very long time to master your emotions but you can do it pretty much everyone on this forum is learning the same lessons Hang tough honey just remember if it feels bad to look at it see it or hear it avoid it at least for now until you have your feet under you more securely