Along with what fizzy said, I've manifested good things when I was sad. It's much better to be happy but like I stated above, you don't have to be happy all the time. If you need to cry, get some negative emotions out, than do so, fighting it won't help. Let yourself be sad for awhile as a way of release, DO IT IN A GOOD WAY THOUGH! ❤️

I’m glad it helped! Yeah, the important thing is to just hold on to the feeling/belief that your person is already yours. If they were yours now, you’d still get sad/upset/stressed over things. You just don’t want to let the thing you’re upset over be them or their absence while you’re working on manifesting a relationship with them. But it won’t affect your relationship manifestation at all if you are feeling down or upset over other things. If this happens, you could even start thinking thoughts like “I’ve had such a frustrating day at work....can’t wait to go home and spend time with my boyfriend”. As long as this doesn’t cause you to wallow in lack, this is a good way to still live in the end! Then go home and actually do a visualization where you spend time with them if you’d like lol

Last edited by fizzy (7/17/2018 8:10 pm)

Angel_0199 wrote:

Thank you so much for your advice! I’ve been in quite high vibrations today, and even one of my coworkers started asking me if I had a boyfriend (it was purely on a friendly level, not because he’s interested in me or anything!) which surprised me a bit as it we’ve never discussed anything like that before and it was so out of the blue, and the timing seemed to coincidental with my vibes today! I’m going to revise this in my journal tonight as if I told him all about my wonderful relationship 😁
I last spoke to my SP a couple of weeks ago and I’m toying with the idea of suggesting we go for coffee when he’s back in town. However it was him that didn’t reply last and I don’t want to force any action before the manifestation is ready, and I’m still a bit concerned I’m too attached to what he’ll say/where it will lead etc. What do you think? I want to give the impression that I’m open to meeting up but not in a needy way that messes with my vibrations!!

Xo

Going back and revising what you said so that it lines up with your desire is a neat idea!

If he didn’t respond last time, maybe you should let him reach out to you next. But, if you find you really want to say something, I would send something friendly, maybe not even about meeting up. I think he would understand that you are open to talking more just through that. Just again, be open to possibly no response.

Thank you! ❤️ The last conversation we had was a positive one, we hadn’t spoken in a few months but it lasted over a few days with him replying daily. I’m pretty sure he didn’t get back to me after my last message because he was having a chaotic week so I’m trying not to dwell on it! 😂 I’ve usually always been the one that contacts first, even when we were together, so I guess I just need to work on the belief that I’m a priority and he contacts me regularly and we communicate daily...should I just do this through affirmations/living in the end or is there a better method? I’m trying to work on it and not contact him first but the last time that happened we didn’t speak for months...I must have some pretty strong negative beliefs going on! Can I change my beliefs about him contacting me first whilst also contacting him? Or is that going against it? I want to contact him but I want to do it naturally and not because I feel like I have to to make things happen... and I’d have to find a plausible excuse for messaging him!

Also: my friend had this idea that maybe why he went so quiet and distant on me after our last date was because I had acted too hard to get when he was asking how I felt about him (I just played it cool and said he was a nice guy - didn’t want to scare him off!) and that he assumed I wasn’t interested...and my guy has been known to overthink things in the past. I guess I just thought by asking him for coffee it would show I was interested....but then if I’m completely wrong about this and he knew I was interested but backed off cause of my vibrations, then a coffee invite might backfire and come off as needy!

I’m definitely overthinking this. I need to sleep 😂

Xo

Last edited by Angel_0199 (7/18/2018 7:28 pm)