ReclaimingMyTime wrote:

fizzy wrote:

Well, you can still whisper to them to say/do those things, but you shouldn’t really be doing it from the perspective of “I need to influence them to do this” because that implies separation and that they have the ability to refuse your influence. Which automatically means you believe that another person has the ability to create in your reality, which isn’t true. You aren’t separate from other people. They are just projections coming from you, as is all the rest of your reality. That’s why it’s possible to manifest a relationship with a specific person.

So if you even feel you want to do this technique, I would either do it from the perspective that this person is already your significant other and you are just expressing love to them/telling them to call you/etc. It’s a cute way to communicate to your significant other when you are not together.

Or I would do it but remember that this person is not separate from you, that they cannot create in your reality - only you can, and firmly know that they are receiving your messages because of this. You don’t need to fervently try to influence them and hope for the best. If you believe you must do that, then you might manifest them rejecting your “influence”. But it’s still all coming from you. They only reflected what you believe.

You want to get to the point of believing you already have them (living from it) or fully expecting that you will get them.

You have a great way of explaining things.  Thank you. I've been on a steep learning curve for the past few weeks and I feel REALLY close to my manifestation.
 

Thanks