Hmm, that seems a lot like it's Superman from the poweroflawandattraction forum, lol. I'd been reading through his post there on playing a game for thirty days. Was interesting to read all the great comments. Thanks for posting that link. Great refresher.

Have you tried making your own MoonBug? As long it's got a pure intention behind it, and it works to help you envision, it'll work. I heard some draw out the scenes for what they want. If you think about the girls who used to put their names next to their crush and a heart around it back in school? Same thing! lol Like carving initials into a tree.

Wander all you like, haha. I'm a fiction writer so it's so hard for me to condense thoughts. *face palm* lol 

That actually sounds like a great idea! Especially if it feels easier for you. Change the visualization if it gets frustrating. Instead of a same ol' spice things up then. Maybe advance it to something new and exciting in a later time after you've been married for years, that you'd do to spice up the marriage. Or you two being old and hanging out together. Visualizations can also be as simple as picturing yourself having dinner with him while you're eating dinner now. Or talking to him as if he's there (sounds nuts, but it can help).

With mine, I went to writing letters. Occasionally if I want to get something out that's bottling up to him, I write a letter as if I'm directly talking to him now. Then thank the universe and him for being in my life. I only do it once a week at the minimum. I'm not trying to rush anything, which may add to a frustration state. If we rush faster than we are prepared for, then it can get us in that irritated state. I know from experience that even if it's once a month we do something toward that goal, the manifestation will happen.

 

Thank you, Sunshine&Dreams!

I’ll get to work on the script and will post it to that forum as soon as it’s ready. I also write fiction, so it shouldn’t be hard to do, and the photo visual of the new ring will make it feel more real. As for length of time, as Dr. Pillai says, “Waiting is a waste of time.”  LOL It’s been five months already of living apart, and I’ve just plain had enough of it. He’s right on that edge of coming home, I feel I just need to get into a state of believing he’s already here in order to make it so. Once the belief changes, the reality will. There are things he seems to want me to do physically before he’ll be ready, but I don’t want to start scurrying about doing actions to impress him. It has to happen from the inside out.

Thanks again so much for the feedback. I feel better already

I know, right??? My husband is my best friend, and we’ve had some lovely conversations the last couple of months, about all kinds of things. But I’m terrible about not bringing up the subject of getting back together. It’s like a compulsion. But then he always says he’s thinking about it, and I think he’s being truthful. But if I’d just stop asking, I bet he’d be back so fast I’d get whiplash, becauseI know my asking annoys him and pushes him away. Round and round it goes.

What IS it that makes us want to keep poking the hornet’s nest? I’m feeling similar to you right now, though, but it’s balanced with a determination that I am so done with this being apart thing. Yet it seems the only way to shift out of that is somehow to let it go. It’s really damn hard when I’m surrounded by evidence of not only his absence, but also his presence before he left. It’s like living with a ghost.  UGH.

Alright, off to write that script... It’s time to fix this thing.