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He has a new girlfriend
So he told me today that he has got a new girlfriend and that he is really happy with her. He thinks she is the love of his life. Do you think it is still possible that he comes back to me? If i do the 25 day challenges and follow the rules of veronica? Are there some people who have had success even tough their boyfriend was with somebody else? Thank you so much. I really screwed up on the phone. I was begging and acting like a child
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He said that we are not made for eachother and that he didnt miss me too 😕
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Stay strong, I know it is hard. But do whatever you can to not think of her and just focus on him and you.
How long ago did you break up? Got to ask why he told you this stuff, to make you jealous perhaps?
Look at it that things are now simpler for you, now you can spend more time focusing on your Self Love, which by the sound of it you really need. If he's rushed into this relationship it's likely it is a rebound and that it will only show him how much he misses you.
At the end of the day he is still speaking and contacting you so still has feelings for you.
Just step back and work on yourself right now, don't message him. He will wonder where you have gone and if you have moved on. Then when he does come back you will be in a state of not needing him because all the love you need is within yourself and that will be so attractive to him!
The answer to your question is YES, OF COURSE you can attract them back. Try the 25 day challenge if you like, but if your feelings are still raw right now then put that on pause and do self love until you can let go and focus on him with only positive thoughts about your future.
I took a break from the 25 day challenge to do Self Love and am so grateful that I did so. I'm not saying not to do the 25 day challenge, but may sure that right now at least 75% of all your effort is on YOU and LOVING YOURSELF!
You can be anything you want, never forget. It might seem like a set back right now but once you love yourself more you'll be thankful for it, trust me.
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Hi. We broke up two months ago because he wasnt ready for a relationship and to commit he said. We were just 3 weeks together but he feels like my soulmate. He said to give him some time and maybe we could restart. But today i hear from him that he is 3 weeks together with another woman and he is happy and thinks she is the one. And now he says that we dont match together. And he thinks we will never in the future. He even spends the whole weekend with her. I m so sad
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Three weeks!!!!!!! That could fizzle out as quickly as it started.
Be a flamingo in a flock of pigeons.
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I saw them together this weekend and thats why i contacted him he is not making me jealous
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But why is he telling that she is the love of his life he never said that to me he said that he wasnt ready to open his heart and now he is with someone else and wants to go for it
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Yeah, the fact he said that seems he is trying to get you to react. If he had no feelings for you he wouldn't do that.
Says that to you then 3 weeks later he does that, as PrettyFlamingo said that will most likely fizzle out fast!
Work on your self love and you will be irresistible, take some time for yourself and work on your priority which is you! I know it seems hard right now but trust me in a few days you'll already be feeling better, just fall in love with yourself.
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Isnt here somoeone who want to add me on messanger or something i really need a friend who also follows loa and who is also going through a hard time. You can send me a private message and i will add you. Thanks everybody for your words of encouregment i really feel better now
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I dont know what is happening to me today. He hurted me so much and now i dont even want him back or need him anymore. Its like he doesnt deserve me. It is the first time in months that i feel emotionally detached from him. When i was in my home town i crossed another ex of me and we spend the day together, its my birthday. I havent heard from my other ex. Not even a happy birthday. Why would i even want someone like that back in my life? I still believe in the loa and i still want him to come back, commit to me and loving me. But i will be the one Who is going to descide if he gets another chance or not. Im putting myself on the pedestal and not him anymore.
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