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Please someone talk to me. I am so upset. I saw him with another woman eating in the same restaurant as me. And then a friend of me said that he left me because he couldn t speak to me. But to me he said that he endend our relationship because he wasn t ready after his divorce. Was he lying? Who had the same situation as me x
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loabeliever wrote:
Please someone talk to me. I am so upset. I saw him with another woman eating in the same restaurant as me. And then a friend of me said that he left me because he couldn t speak to me. But to me he said that he endend our relationship because he wasn t ready after his divorce. Was he lieing? Who had the same situation as me x
Well, no one can know for sure whether he was lying or not. But, it doesn’t matter. When you run into situations like this, it’s important to not let them stop you. It may seem like a setback, but it doesn’t have to be. It could all be a part of your manifestation of the relationship.
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Don't allow anything like that to bother you. Nothing is set in stone until you make it so. Not saying that to concern you. Just simply saying that you need to distract yourself and focus on something that will make you happy. Ignore that reality, make a new one with you and him, happily ever after. Focus on YOU alone with him as you and he ARE together already. That? That was nothing.
Take this example. There was a man I was in love with my entire life. Brother's best friend. EVERY time he broke up with someone, he came back around. When we were young, it was every few weeks, lol. He even got married when he got older. Part of me thought . . . this is really over. Guess what? I got better, felt inside one day they would divorce and once more he'd wiggle around me. I KNEW it would happen because I wanted it to. I know I created that because I wanted it so much. Sure nuff, few years later, that happened. Do you know why it finally was done? I was done. I saw him as a person I didn't want anymore. I saw him as he was and that he wasn't the one for me. Otherwise? Would've kept coming back around. And once in a bit? He does still keep coming back around. I am the one who keeps it from happening.
So don't even focus on what you saw! Keep affirming you and he are together to yourself, listen to happy songs, focus on yourself, making yourself better and that man is going to come after you like a dog in heat. ;)
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Ok thank you for your reply. It s nothing compared to your case. I was so chocked when i saw this and still am. It s so difficult to ignore the reality when you see this kind of stuff happen
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This stuff is just making me sick. The guy isnt even thinking of me and is dating other women. If i keep doing these visualization i am realy going to make myself crazy, i think i m going to quit and get over him. This stuff is just killing me and making things worse. Sorry for my negative post guys. But i m feeling realy desperate and pathetic
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This stuff is just making me sick. The guy isnt even thinking of me and is dating other women. If i keep doing these visualization i am realy going to make myself crazy, i think i m going to quit and get over him. This stuff is just killing me and making things worse. Sorry for my negative post guys. But i m feeling realy desperate and pathetic
If it is making you feel that way, then take a step back. Nobody is worth getting that worked up over.
You're assuming he isn't thinking about you, so that is what'll happen. You don't know for sure that he isn't. As for him being at a restaurant, that shouldn't mean anything. Nothing says that anything that happened with that third party was permanent.
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So i broke the no contact rule due to my disbelieve in the loa of yesterday. I called him and for the first time since two months he picked up the phone. He agreed about doing something together as just friends. What do you guys think. Is this a good manifestation? He didnt text by himself. Now he asked to text him and let him now when it fits for me to see him.